Twin flame Telepathy – Embracing the communication between ascending hearts

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Regardless of whether we intend to or not, we are continuously sharing our energy with others. Since twin flames share the same one soul resonance and vibrate at the same frequency, their energetic flow makes them telepathic and emphatic with each other and enables them to intuitively know what the other is feeling, desiring or thinking. When we listen to our twin flame talk this is often with a sense of wonder as they seem to be able to read our mind, often taking even our most intimate thoughts straight out of our mind and saying them out loud using our own words. It is because of this telepathic bond that a twin flame pair will often find themselves texting, calling or emailing each other at the exact same moment, finishing each other’s sentences, speaking the same words simultaneously etc.

This is however only the beginning of the telepathic and psychic abilities between the twins. Telepathy in fact is an expression of the wider energetic resonance, oneness and binding together of the twins which naturally deepens and strengthens as their love for each other grows. It is often said that twin flames connect mind to mind, heart to heart and soul to soul – and this is certainly true from a telepathic viewpoint. True telepathy engages our whole being; the mind, heart, body and soul; requiring not only the mind to translate the flow of energy into a language which can be understood by the recipient, but also for the heart chakra to act as a transmitter of all the emotional and mental information. Telepathy is also received through the crown chakra, which connects us to our higher self, universal consciousness and the divine realms.

When twin flames connect energetically, the intense feelings of love spiral out of the magnetic vortex of the heart chakra and create a gateway of telepathic communication between the two. More than any other part of the energetic body, the heart is the essential thinking, feeling and knowing centre of a multi-dimensional being, generating a powerful electrical field 60 times greater and a magnetic field 5,000 times greater than that of the brain. It is therefore through the opening of our heart and crown chakras, often as result of our spiritual awakening, that we are able to fully tune into the telepathic connection with our twin flame.row_06_img_01

Telepathy grows as love grows

The telepathic connection between the twins intensifies and becomes more fluent once their energetic bodies merge and they start ascending. Ascension purifies the heart, thus creating the possibility for sincere, honest and vulnerable communication between the two. This merging is where the twins exchange decoding codes to each other’s souls, and it is this which brings about specific spiritual abilities, such as sensing each other’s thoughts telepathically and each other’s energy naturally, even when physically apart. However the twins’ ability to transmit telepathically may not be equal, since it is the twin who is working on him/herself spiritually that will have the stronger ability to do so.

Being able to access each other’s soul transmissions, to an extent, allows us to read our twin’s mind as if it was ours. I have on several occasions been able to experience this, and it really felt like our two minds were one with very little difference between his thoughts and mine. The way in which a thought would pop into my head and he would act upon it or react to it as if it was his own felt very natural and right; without hesitation or questions asked. If for example the thought of being thirsty crossed my mind then without a word he would get up and bring me a glass of water. On another occasion, my twin lost his keys but before he even started to look for them, as soon as the thought of the keys missing crossed his mind, it crossed mine too and I automatically knew where they were. Even though I hadn’t seen him leave them anywhere somehow I “remembered”, perhaps through our shared mind, where they were.

Since the connection works outside of the normal boundaries of time and space, whether the twins are physically together or apart is irrelevant. It is when we have no way of confirming our telepathic experiences with our twin that we often wonder whether they’re actually consciously communicating with us or feeling us – or whether the communication is one-sided. The explanation here is complex to the extent that the communication is being passed back and forth between two multidimensional beings. For example, we may be able to perceive our twin thinking about us, and on the other hand receive loving, encouraging messages from them. One could be coming from their conscious mind, while the other is from their soul/higher self, which remains in touch and in love with us at all times.

This can be very confusing, yet as both twins begin to awaken and grow spiritually, they naturally align with their higher selves and the divine will. There is no way that a twin evolving spiritually would not at some point become internally aware of their twin and the mutual communication between the two hearts. Furthermore, as the twins surrender they learn to rely on this communication as a comforting, loving energy filled with spiritual nourishment always available to them and they begin to intuitively understand its slight nuances.

Radiant Heart

Radiant Heart

The importance of awakening our heart

At times during the twin flame connection we find ourselves confused, frustrated and hurt by the inconsistency of communication from our twin. While internally we feel their unconditional love for us, externally they may be acting cold and aloof. Perhaps our twin flame who once treated us like nothing else mattered in the world suddenly tells us they want nothing more to do with us, yet the energy and love emanating from their heart hasn’t changed. The thing to know about telepathy between twin flames is that while words can easily deceive us, the energy received through the heart chakra does not and cannot lie.

The Biblical fable of the Tower of Babel tells the story of how God put an end to the “one language”, thought to have been telepathy, and how this led to misunderstanding and deception among the humans since they were no longer able to communicate from the heart. This has very much been the state of humanity these past centuries; however with the awakening of the heart-centered consciousness, people everywhere are tapping into the ability to lovingly and honestly communicate regardless of all cultural, religious, linguistic and ethical barriers.

Twin flames are at the forefront of the heart awakening, since it is their divine mission to anchor the heart-centered consciousness and divine love onto the Earth plane. The language of the heart requires no translation, decoding or interpretation and therefore we are able to energetically tell whether our twin is being genuine and authentic in the words they speak. Our heart also tells us when we are not being true to ourselves and as our heart centre activates, it becomes harder and harder not to align with the infinite love that we are.

My twin flame often commented on how he felt like I could see into his soul and how he could not hide anything from me. It is simply impossible to hide anything from our twin flame, and when our twin’s words and thoughts don’t match, we can perceive this. One day as I lovingly confronted my twin about the inconsistency in the way he yearned for a deeper love yet chose to remain in a co-dependent relationship, I could actually HEAR his thoughts as if they were being spoken out loud. We were in the same room, and he was acting extremely nervous and I could hear him repeating to himself “I’ve done my soul searching, I know what I want” all over again, like a mantra of self-denial. I didn’t even realise at first that he wasn’t speaking the words out loud since it sounded the same to me, however when I called him up on it I could feel just how exposed and vulnerable he felt.

It takes a lot of guts and courage to look our twin in the eye when we have unresolved emotions and feelings and this is also one of the reasons we run from our twin; ironically, to attempt to hide away from the one whom we cannot hide from. It can be truly terrifying to have our feelings revealed when we are not even ready to admit them to ourselves, but the truth is, they are already being felt and known, whether we like it or not.

The ways in which we connect

There are many ways in which twin flames share telepathically and project themselves on each other. Generally speaking, when our twin reaches out to us, we recognise them by the unique energy that they convey. We may feel a quickening of our heart, and sense their presence/essence or smell their fragrance. Sometimes we are able to actually feel them touch us, usually by feeling a gentle caress on our hair, cheek, lips, hand etc. We are able to feel their warmth embrace us. Sometimes this happens at the most inconvenient time – the other day my twin “visited” when I was at work on my way to the rest room! It is ok to send our twin away if the timing is off or if we simply cannot handle their energy at that time. Our twin’s soul loves us unconditionally and won’t mind!

Twin flames also often share the same dreams and communicate telepathically in the dream state and it is not unusual for the twins to have had reoccurring dreams of one another prior to meeting. Equally many twins, such as I, have developed a psychic connection with their twin flame before meeting them physically and have been aware of the other on some level since their earliest childhood.

Furthermore, the lives and daily events of the twin flames are often filled with synchronicities and unusual parallels. Whatever passes through one mind also passes through the other, in one way or another, and so the twins often find themselves reading the same books, sharing interests, liking the same music etc. These parallels often happen without any traditional knowledge of what the other is doing and can be as simple as one twin suddenly receiving the inspiration to cook many elaborate dishes only to find that the other was doing just that during that same time. As an example, when my twin immersed himself in his new job for a Japanese company, I signed up to study Japanese at University, and when he attempted to adopt a child, I instantaneously became an advocate for adoption – something I had never been involved with in the past!

We also know that we are picking up on our twin when we feel overwhelming emotions and feelings which seem to come out of nowhere. We might burst out crying for no apparent reason, or feel intense anger or happiness, want to laugh out loud etc. It is important to get to know ourselves so that when these emotions hit us, we are able to simply recognise them as coming from our twin – and let them go lovingly.

Personally, one of the most mind-blowing experiences of twin flame telepathy is without a doubt being able to talk to our twin in our head – and to be heard. For example, one day as I was getting ready to leave my twin’s flat, I looked back at him and in my mind said “See you later alligator “. Instantly he replied out loud “In a while crocodile”.

Sometimes twin flames share lengthy conversations which seem to happen entirely in the mind. This “mind chatter” can be a maddening experience since it can last hours and be quite relentless. Sometimes these “confessionals” go on so late into the night that we cannot help but fall asleep regardless, only to be woken up by the chatter in the middle of the night! The times where I have experienced this most intensely have been after my Kundalini awakening and after our mutual surrender. The conversations are very much like the intense face to face conversations that we would have had at the time if we had seen each other and involved planning next steps, and explaining recent internal growth and insights to the other, as well as mutual reassurance and expressions of love.

Naturally, telepathy is just as strong when the awakened twins are face to face, and their physical presence provides an excellent opportunity to validate their experiences. After my Kundalini awakening I found that I could literally touch my twin with my mind. The day I discovered this I was stood all the way across the room from my twin, and he was sat down at his desk, with his back to me. A thought crossed my mind: I wanted to run my fingers through his hair and kiss his neck softly with my lips. It was just a passing thought, yet in the same instant that it appeared in my mind, my twin jumped up; putting his hand on his neck. He asked me if I had touched him, even though he could see that I was too far away for that. I said “No, but I thought about it”. He said he had felt something, like fingers, running through his hair. I smiled: “That was me.”

Outside of time & space

Outside of time & space

What if I am no longer with my twin?

When we experience a merger with our twin flame it is indispensable to keep our hearts open and our thoughts upbeat. Whether our twin knows it or not and whether they believe in twin flames or telepathy or anything else for that matter, they will be deeply affected as they will experience the same thoughts, emotions and feelings as we do. Twin flames are always in continuous loving communication through their shared heart space; however when this is done consciously both twins reap the benefits. Sending love to our twin helps them wherever they are – it heals and uplifts them. Being able to remain connected like this is a divine blessing and a gift which enables the twins to assist each other’s soul growth by giving love, guidance, encouragement, strength, as well as emotional and spiritual support.

Initially, it is not easy to live with the connection once we are no longer in a “relationship” with our twin since we continue to feel each other and reflect each other’s mental, physical, emotional or spiritual states regardless. This shared vibrational frequency can certainly make us feel claustrophobic, especially when our twin suffers from mental, emotional or physical instability. We may be feeling the effects of our twin’s drinking, smoking, promiscuity, drug taking, emotional lows and much more – and it may take us years to understand this. Often we remain in this vibrational frequency out of choice; taking on our twin’s pain as if it was ours. We do this because we are, at least subconsciously, afraid that if we let go of our twin we will no longer feel them at all.

It is however only through detachment, surrender to God and connecting with our higher Self by increasing our own vibration that we are really able to perceive the benefits and endless possibilities of this connection – without the pain. Our ascension into a higher vibrational frequency will also help uplift our twin since the twins continue to be magnetised to each other. It is a divine law that what was once whole must return to wholeness – and the strongest pull is always towards the light!

Embracing our Soul

The depth of the telepathic connection with my twin has been a source of joy, wonder and also sometimes playful suspicion between me and my twin, since he has on more than one occasion reckoned that I’ve put some kind of a spell on him! Regardless of how the telepathy and its various expressions work or whether we believe this to be the work of our twin, God or the devil, feeling each other across the distance is an ESSENTIAL part in the process of becoming whole for twin flames. The reunion with the external twin can never happen without the discovery of the “twin within”, which is the complimentary energy of our twin which forms part of who we are. As long as we deny, block, undermine or doubt the truth of the energy of our twin INSIDE OUR OWN HEART, we will never be able to discover our own wholeness within.

It is therefore essential for every twin flame coupling to work on opening the conscious flow of love from the heart, since it is the energy field of the heart which connects us to our twin and others. It is only once we allow the telepathic flow of this Love into our lives through the exchange of unconditional love between us and our twin that we are able to align ourselves with the divine will and create balance within, thus radiating it outwardly through our light, awareness and well-being. Embracing our twin is embracing our own Soul – and life itself.

An open heart is an open mind

An open heart is an open mind

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195 Responses to Twin flame Telepathy – Embracing the communication between ascending hearts

  1. furrera says:

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  2. Amy says:

    So when you are hit with the overwhelming emotions, like bursting into tears, does that also mean that your twin is crying? Is the overwhelming emotion that you are experiencing a direct translation of the exact emotion your twin is feeling? Thank you.

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    • doucejonna says:

      Hi Amy, thanks for taking the time to read & comment on my blog. Apologies for the long delay in replying to you. Yes I do believe that when we are hit by overwhelming, sudden emotions such a bursting into tears, that these are coming from our twin flame (and I had some profound experiences of this last year)… However I wouldn’t say that everytime this hits us and we cry that they are crying too.. I do think that they are releasing that same emotion at the same time though, and for us that might mean that we cry and for them, they might deal with that emotion/intensity in their own way… And sometimes yes this means crying “together apart”.. I hope this helps. Love & light to you xx

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  3. Marble says:

    I love your writing. It’s like dessert for my soul 😀 it gives me so much hope

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    • doucejonna says:

      Such a sweet comment Marble, “like dessert to my soul”.. Thank YOU for reading and for taking the time to comment!! Blessings and love to you, never give up hope! xx

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  4. Kay says:

    Hi, just wondering if I could get some insight. My twin cut off all communication with me, and is even with another girl now, and even worse is having a kid with her. It sounds like an absolute catastrophe to me but deep, deep down I know I still love him. It’s not even something I can control and I still miss him sometimes and even feel his energy and emotions often. I know being angry isn’t going to help me, but this is such a tricky situation. I hope he is aware of this too.

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    • doucejonna says:

      Dear Kay, thanks for commenting on my blog. I will of course do my best to answer your question..
      I must admit that i have done exactly what your twin has done: cut all communication off with my twin, married someone else and had a family with him.. It’s just the way it was supposed to happen.. I understand now that neither one of us was ready to come together when we met because we weren’t ready to face ourselves.. It was simple as that.. We tried, demons arose and we just weren’t prepared for it.. I don’t regret having a family with someone else because it gave me a way out (temporarily) of the twin flame connection at a moment where I needed respite (it was simply too intense).. Yes, I did still feel my twin, more or less… For a while I disconnected from myself, doing everything to make my husband happy.. It was only after crisis after crisis hit me that I realised how disconnected I was and as soon as I sought to feel like myself again, BOOM, there he was; in energy, in my thoughts, all around me etc.
      Be reassured that if this is truly your twin, he will want to reconnect with you at some point. It took me 8 years, so the wait might be long for you, it all depends on what you planned together before you came here… After all, you both have a path to travel, experiences to gather before you can come together again.
      In the meantime, it is your task is to make a life for yourself which is a TRUE reflection of who you are.. As you have met your twin flame your transformation into wholeness is guaranteed and its up to you now whether you want to take the painful road of anger, doubt and regret, or the easier road of surrender and service to humanity. As twins, we are here to SERVE, to do our mission and each of us is precious and needed. YOU are needed. There is a purpose for you being here, outside of your twin flame union, which will happen if such is the agreement between your two souls for this lifetime.. There is NOTHING you can do to accelerate it, except to face YOUR SELF fearlessly and fully and to STOP looking at your twin for anything. Enjoy your life, other relationships perhaps – or just your own company, after all the journey is the journey back to YOU, and your twin flame only a reflection of this.
      Like you say, being angry about the situation will do no good. Who are you angry at? Him, yourself or God? No one else is to blame for your twin making his own choices in life. He is entitled to do that, and no one, not even you as his twin, can understand WHY he needs those experiences.. The way I always saw it, my twin’s wife (and subsequently my husband whom I am now divorcing) have a very important role to play for our Union, for both spiritual and physical union. They are here to teach us who we are NOT. They were here to clear karma with us – which is something our twin does not do for us, since twins do not share karma between them. Let go of your anger and surrender it all to the realisation that all is as it should be, and keep your heart open to allow the love to flow.. To him, but also to others. When you feel his energy, speak to him lovingly, close your eyes and enjoy it. No one can take that away from you. He will also be able to feel you, on some level – and as time goes by this too will become conscious in him.
      I hope this helps.. I know there isn’t much I can say to ease the pain but I want you to know that you are not alone and that you are LOVED, so very much.. There are great things planned for you, this is why you are a twin flame. Blessings to you on your path. Love, Jonna xx

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      • Kate says:

        I found this really helpful! The whole article, but also im glad I was drawn to this comment. I didn’t realise anything about the twin flame years ago, and never actually believed in soulmates. But these last 8 years have been crazy and suddenly I’ve woken up and discovering I have a twin and I’ve felt him all along and bam everything is suddenly about him. I am somewhere caught between what is “real” or a “dream”.. However! I feel afraid to believe in such a thing because it’s not logical really? Not talking with my “twin” at the moment and haven’t in 4 years makes it so hard. But he has been in my life all this time. Even the 4 years before that! And the years before that!!! Makes me laugh. Anyway. What I’m saying is, thanks for this beautiful article! Can you offer me any advice on getting past the doubts… The part where my mind wants to say “you’re crazy, let go of this nonsense.” But my heart says I need to stop running. (Even his mother asked if I was running when I last saw her, she barely knows me)… It’s all there… And so obvious. But really?? Am I crazy?
        I’m in the process of giving him “space” at the moment… Im not sure if its because I’m really still trying to figure it out. But, I know he’s got stuff to wake up to.. Drug addictions etc. Needs to stop.. My heart breaks because I know how to end that and im dying to tell him how to do it… But I feel like I can’t chase him down and tell him!!! I know no body that is going through this. Would be good to talk to someone who has been!

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      • Wen says:

        I’m experiencing the whole cutting off communication from someone I dreamed of an eventually met, it’s been hard but also a great learning experience

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      • doucejonna says:

        Dear Wen, thank you for your comment. Sorry to hear your are going through a difficult time with your connection.. It seems, like you say, the potential for learning is huge at these times so always stay focused on the bigger picture of emotional and spiritual growth through the challenges. Love & light to you… Jonna xx

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      • Marie says:

        Thank you, thank you, thank you. You just described my experience exactly. It’s hard for me to call him my twin flame without his acknowledgement, but we met in HS. We became instant best friends, we dated and broke up, we dated again in college, then I broke it off when his needs became more than I could handle at the time. I also needed to take my own soul journey. Fast forward 15 years, and I’m in the process of separating from my husband, with whom I have 2 children. I also lost my Self along the way, leading to one crisis after another. Although we had very little to no contact, his presence was with me through it all, but only after I began actively detaching from my marriage did I fully realize what it all meant. I had read about twin flames once or twice, but I now know. I reached out to him because I couldn’t stand the wait, and although he never married, he is now living with his girlfriend of a number of years. I’ve poured most of my heart out to him, but he has yet to confirm or deny if he does or has ever felt the same way. So, I’m trying to release that “need” to know, and rather work on finding and being true to my Self. In doing so, I have already had exciting things happen – prior to even thinking he could be my twin! Electricity running up and down my body (while driving) that I “knew” was him. Intense warmth in my heart chakra, to the point I caught myself holding my heart while grocery shopping. Expressing my fears or concerns (in my head to him) and having his voice talk back to me – when this happens my third eye feels ice cold. I’m waking up finally, and I’m learning to trust the process. My question is how can one distinguish a twin flame from a former love that needs to be let go, when the person in question is not “available” to help with the answer?

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  6. awakentheangel says:

    I am in the process of awakening to my twin in my mind. I’ve known of her for 11 years, known her consciously for 6, but only recently (in the past few months) did I realize she was a real woman calling out to me. I had always adhered to a more Jungian psychological approach, but she is too crafty and specific to be just my own mind talking to me. She is so much more. But I don’t think I’ve met her yet. One thing I can say for certain is that literally everything I do is synchronous now. Everything. It doesn’t matter where I go or what I do, she is with me as well as time. But I have yet to touch her, and I want to. Is there any way that I can decipher these signs faster and find her? Or must I simply wait for her to appear? I can’t lie…waiting is tearing me apart inside and making me question my sanity every step of the way.

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  7. Jimmy Harvey says:

    Joanna; This past year I had a spiritual awakening; my wife who I loved deeply just up and left; it was very odd and ut most dramatic; 6 months later I met someone online; very odd how it came about but our first meeting was amazing; hours of talking and so much in common; kissing and all out love for hours. She was just simply stunning!! Then she disappeared; the runner began. No response to nothing for months; I was in awe; my spiritual transition began; I knew she was special. Im a tough guy but I was deep in thought with her; I knew she was the one. In Feb a medium told me that she was my twin flame and another medium said the same. Out of know where she contacted me; I went to see her again at home, this time it was more sexual; stay all night as she held my hand; but to know avail she has disappeared again; been 5 weeks and no response to nothing; I have been told that she is coming to me but be patient; ugh so hard. had a dream other night that she was standing in my doorway; but that was all. Im waiting patiently on her movement forward and have pulled back from trying to contact her; aka laws of attraction; To those who are experiencing the runner affect im living it. On a guys side though. I have also been told that this is my last incarnation; that we will marry within a year. I believe all that took place with my ex wife happened for this reason; it was time for my twin and I to become one. Now I wait for her to realize that this is planned. Im a Scorpio and she is Capricorn; she is my ascending; we have kissed at 11:11; called her at 11:11. she is me; I look forward to what will come; I try to move forward with dating some and keeping my soul clear. its the best you can do until the time is ready and what has been planned for you

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  8. Jennifer says:

    Thank You for this post this helped me understand my twin flame connection much better.

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  9. gabby says:

    So my twinflame broke it off a second time. He blamed me for everything wrong and was talking with his ex momentarily. He acted as if him and his ex talking was no big deal but his texts made me feel otherwise. Since our recent breakup (the second time) I have come to realize who I am, what I want in life, and where it is I am going. I have been meditating and doing many awakening exercises. I have let loose and I am having fun meeting new people and just living my life. Who I think is my twin flame will not get out of my head. I continuously dream, think, and feel him. Or at least I think I feel him with these random feelings. He lives near me and I always drive pass him or see him in town. We do not communicate on any physical level but he keeps showing up everywhere! Is it telepathy? I’m so confused on whether hes my twin flame or twin flame look alike. Please help me.

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    • Dylan Mckay says:

      Your situations sounds similar to mine. Just for sake of it my first name starts with j and I live in michigan. I ask cause it sound real similar and why not rule it out.

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  10. Dylan Mckay says:

    I am experiencing this and it started about a year ago. It’s like nothing I’ve ever felt. I can’t stop thinking about her. It’s not like anything I’ve ever experienced. I’ve experienced 5 dreams with her in it, nothing sexual. I’ve only other dreamed about one girlfriend and it was only one time. I have also had incredible synchronicity. Our birthdays are also similar. This overwhelming feeling I document as best I can. I’ve had telepathy with her multiple times. One time we recognized a famous author shared name with me at same time. Along with guilottines, and a couple other topics. I mean it was seriously like 5 different things we discussed in a brief period. Five different things I had been thinking about all week. Never believed in telepathy until this. I was going to buy her a charm that we each get half of. Then she bought a cool rock of some unknown type that we broke in half together. I still have my half. She is awesome. She lives near me but doesn’t want to socialize. We have many of the same struggles and I think we are supposed to help each other. It has caused me to try ever harder to be decent.

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  11. Dylan Mckay says:

    oops double post. how do u edit these?

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    • doucejonna says:

      Hi Dylan, thanks for your comment. Don’t worry, I deleted the duplicate comment. 🙂 really appreciate the time you took to comment. I will respond with more time soon. Xx

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  12. Dylan Mckay says:

    I thought they were blocked cause my name so I changed that too.

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  13. lozziechai says:

    hey i love reading your blog!!! i love spirituality and i also talk about my twin soul connection on my page 🙂 would be great if we could discuss at some point as I’m always looking for new info on twin sou;s 🙂 xxx

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  14. Ajay says:

    I met my twin, then she died 2 months and 10 days later , and now I’m just tryin’ to do my best . I guess you could say in a sense I feel lost, Idk alot has happened this last year this is all still just like …whoa, what,wow … I’m still trying to breathe. However this has given me hope reading this Thank you .

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    • vita says:

      Hello AJay I am sooo sorry for your Loss, I feel with You, feel loved and cared from Your Twin, You are not alone in this, your Twin and God are always there to guide You and carry you through and safe Home. 🙂 Blessings to You, breath deep into LOVE YOU ARE ❤

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    • doucejonna says:

      Dear Ajay, it’s Been over a year but I want you to know, your twin is always with you… I do dope you find this inner space of unconditional love and serenity where you will be able to feel her with you always. Turn the longing and the love into power, and radiate that love around you. You can do this. Deep breaths. We are here for you. How are you doing today? Love and blessings to you on this difficult path. Xx Jonna

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  15. brookearchibald says:

    Hey, I loved this post. I’ve heard about twin flames before but never knew too much about it. I think I met my twin flame two years ago. I was drawn to go to India to volunteer in a community and that’s where I met him (he’s from Denmark). We were in eachothers presence for about 5 months. We had this mutual connection, understanding, something phenomenal and hard to explain. One day he jokingly mentioned how it feels like we have a telepathic connection, being able to read eachothers thoughts, seeing inside eachothers minds and feeling eachothers feelings. It was so shocked he felt it too. It is this remarkable presence between us. I can see his soul through his eyes. He told me it made him scared. We never admitted to having feelings for eachother, even though I know I have immense feelings for him. I actually am in a relationship now with another man, it kind of just worked out that way and I think it was meant to be. I still think about my twin flame (if he is) often, and have deep feelings for him. I know it wasn’t meant to be when we met, but I have this deep feeling that we will meet again. I feel horrible for my current partner, as I love him completely, we are best friends and he couldn’t be more amazing. I’m just a bit confused. Do you have any tips or thoughts on my situation?

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  16. jasmine says:

    Some of this is somewhat off. Each twin pairing is different. Some twins are opposites and they don’t have the same interest, tastes, etc. You’re just identical to your own personal twin. I am the opposite from mines, but where I am weak he is strong and where he is weak I am strong.

    Please don’t place requirements of who and what a twin flame does. Each pairing is unique and have their own unique way of communicating with each other. So please speak for yourself and not the rest of us (╯°□°)╯︵ ┻━┻

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  17. Kaylee says:

    This article really hit home. While I was reading it I felt my soul flair with affirmation. I knew my twin was out there my whole life. Oddly enough, I was incapable of accepting love on the human realm. It is very unsatisfying, especially since meeting my twin. I lived a life full of lesson’s this go around and the thing that kept me going was knowing I was closer and closer to him. I was married when we met, but Divine intervention cured that right up. It was truly love at first sight. We met randomly through friends, I wasn’t looking for anyone but the day we met, we ended up separating with our intermingled parties and went off to a quiet place to talk, and when I say talk I mean I completely unloaded my most personal feelings to him. It was so natural and fluid. We embraced at the end, never exchanging anything but a wave goodbye. As fate would have it, my ex ended up leaving me, this back story has too many layers so I will keep it simplified. I didn’t know anything about him, other than he was friends with my best friends husband. So I went Facebook stalking to find some form of contact information. I sent him a message, although at the time I was fearful of my shameless attempts at achieving contact, I remained calm. Not even a wink of an eye later he messages back that he wants to take me out for drinks. Once again we talked the night away, he was so real and saw me for me, it was truly beautiful. I knew I loved hi. Early on, beyond a chemical reaction to love, I was hooked. It was a soul connection, he was so familiar and yet. So new. We moved in together less than a week of knowing each other, we have never fought and have excellent communication. We are in all sense of the words, best friends. True lovers, endless love and devotion. I have never been this happy ever. Our love has been picked up on by every psychic. Recently we went to one together, she told us that she teaches twin flame classes and that we were blessed because we both balanced out our karma before getting together so we went right into the Nerviana stage. We do communicate telepathically, that is what brought me to your amazingly written article. The psychic picked up on our abilities together and said that we can communicate without talking. We do this all the time. Just as you and your twin, we also will give little affirmations of our abilities by shaking our heads yes to a question asked in the mind, I love the art of body language, the best words are those unsaid. Once again, I thank you. I hope you continue to write, you are very gifted and wise. Much love. Kaylee

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  18. Ayanda says:

    God! This is so beautiful… it is posts like these that make our connections easier to deal with. All my love 🙂 :*

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  19. Cat says:

    Hi
    I believe I met my twin flame when I was 15. He was a few years older than I was and he felt I was too young. We remained friends and I began a relationship with another guy. Later when I was 18 he asked me to break it off with that guy and be with him and I refused. I knew I loved him but I believe it was fear that didn’t allow me to be with him. After that we had no communication for about a year and I knew I had made a huge mistake so I went back to him and told him I made a mistake and that I wanted to be with him but by then he had begun a new relationship with someone and said no he was so cruel to me telling me that basically we had nothing all these years and he didn’t even know why he asked me to break it off with my boyfriend because our relationship would have never worked. I asked if we could be friends the way we were and he said no. One year after that we saw eachother in a club and we ended up hanging the whole night I asked him why was he so cruel to me when I asked him to be with me and he didn’t say much besides that he had such an attraction to me that I wouldn’t understand. I ended up cheating on my boyfriend of about 4 years at that time (the guy that he asked me to leave for him) and we never spoke again. I ended up leaving my boyfriend and within the next 4 years I started a new relationship with a man that I love and do feel that he is my soulmate. I am now 32 years old. I have 5 children with my husband who I love so much. We have through the years bumped into eachother have said hello and thats it. When we have seen eachother there is a strange vibe that we give eachother but yet I still feel the love. We have never had a real conversation since that night at the club. I have always had dreams with him and still have these moments of daydreaming about him. I cry about not having him in my life as even a friend. This isn’t about leaving my husband or having some kind of affair. My husband and I have issues but there is no question that I am where I am supposed to be. I just struggle with the pain of loss because of not having my twin flame in my life. I think I sound insane sometimes but this is what I feel. How can I let go of him?

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    • vita says:

      Hmm I dont know we are Reflections, if He misses You it reflects back, and you think about him, and help him go through Loss, is the same, however You will come back HOME, Him 🙂

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  20. shawna says:

    Very weird I was dreaming last night and I met someone in my dreams that I was so connected to we ended up coming together sexually, I didn’t see sex it was like a swirling of our souls or something. I didn’t get to see his face or I forgot just the outline of his hair and I think he was married. ..what does this mean? I’m married also.

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    • doucejonna says:

      Shawna, I do believe that we are multidimensional beings and when we sleep, sometimes some of our activity in these “other dimensions” seeps through to our consciousness, our dreams etc. From someone who met my twin flame in the astral years before actually meeting the human him, I would ask you to keep an open mind as to why this person in your dreams is. The swirling of the souls sounds very much like the swirling double helix (like a dna strand) of ascension that takes the souls back to their Source… This may be a memory from before this life; a reminder of your state of oneneSs.. I never saw my twin’s face in my dreams /visions either, always just the outline, the back of his neck, the side of his face etc. I guess we like to keep the mystery. Remain open minded as to what it means. You will recognise your twin sooner or later if such is meant to happen.
      Meeting your twin flame does not always mean your marriage has to end – that is a decision for you, and you only, when the time is right.. 💜 lots of blessings to you. Jonna x

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  21. Lyn says:

    My situation with my twin flame is unique in the sense that I am 30+ years older than him. Obviously we can never be together on a romantic level for that would be really inappropriate. However, everything that you described in your blog applies to the relationship we have. We finish each other’s sentences. Think alike. Like the same music, eat the same way, communicate just by looking at each other, etc. I struggled with it for quite some time because of the age difference, but now that I’ve accepted it, I’ve noticed my growth spiritually and I’ve seen him grow. All I wish for him is happiness and a life the is uplifting and enlightening. As you said, when I spontaneously break out in tears, I learn that he was dealing with some emotional situations himself as he’s preparing to go to college. Additionally, many serendipitous events have occurred–too many to list. I believe that the age difference is purposeful as he doesn’t have a supportive relationship with his mother; therefore, I am a mother-figure for him who loves him unconditionally. It’s an interesting dynamic as he tells me he loves me too. Not all twin flame relationships are romantic. Keep in mind that they are what God has deemed necessary for each soul’s ascension.

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  22. Christine says:

    when I was 15 I met a guy during my vacation,he helped me to climb the rock and when we gaze one anothers eyes,I felt pain and panic,but he attract me.After 2 months we met again and when we were talking I again felt the same panic and pain.I also have dreams when I deeply love someone and when I wake up I feel his presence,it is like he hugs me and warm me,What does this mean?

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  23. Storm says:

    No one is born in halves and incomplete. The whole twin flame thing is an utterly ridiculous new age scam if people would just take the time to use the brains they were born with and think for themselves.

    To quote a line from Sleepless in Seattle, “Annie, when you’re attracted to someone, it just means that your subconscious is attracted to their subconscious, subconsciously. So what we think of as fate is just two neuroses knowing that they’re a perfect match.”

    I couldn’t have put it better myself.

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    • cybersloth says:

      Twin flames are halved in a higher dimensional sense, it is ok to not understand that as it is actually impossible to completely understand a higher dimension from this one, however in the 3rd and 5th dimensions we are split masculine/feminine so unless you are an androgynous being right now, then you have a twin flame either here on earth or existing energetically.

      Arch Angels are an example of higher dimensional androgynous beings.

      the fact that you have quoted a movie line and said you could not have said it better just goes to show that you do not have the knowledge or understanding to make a valid contribution to this discussion.

      TBH closed minded and ignorant humans are the most frustrating thing on this planet, so shut your mouth and open your heart and mind and WAKE UP, This planet is going to ascend with or without you…

      A0E

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      • Diti says:

        Hahaha loved what you said cybersloth..

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      • G says:

        That seems a bit harsh, Cybersloth. Sure, some people don’t get it and can say stupid things out of ignorance, but I’m not sure attacking them with hateful words is going to help them ‘see the light’ – or even want to try.

        Ever heard the saying, “you catch more flies with honey than vinegar”? It’s all about attitude, patience and just a dash of kindness. Just sayin’… 🙂

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    • lila says:

      And why subconscious has to have negative sense? Isn’t ,still a part of ourselves? Is it right to underestimate and reject a part of ourselves?
      I did it, for years, I ‘ve been rejecting this part of myself, I was full of neuroses and attracting the same neurotic people, and being unhappy! I then decided that I have no other chance but to work with that I rejected for so long, and baam I am better, different and peaceful with myself. I love my subconscious, I accept it and I am getting liberated from neuroses of the past, month by month! It is worth trying, and believe me it was a tf story that made me start. Because, that is what is being said about twin flames, RECOGNISE AND LOVE YOURSELF.. ALL OF YOUR PARTS!

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  24. Lindsay says:

    Hi,
    Thank you for making this post! I have been in an on-off relationship with a man that I have been told is my twin flame. Two years ago, he cheated on me and left me for another women. I could never understand why I felt as thought I could literally feel his presence some times, or why I would have a passing thought about him and he would suddenly be calling me a second later. This is all very new to me, but I am happy to find that there is a rhyme and reason to all of the confusion, pain and so on. I have always been very spiritual and always knew there was something more and I just wasn’t adding it up yet- This has confirmed everything I have felt deep down.I am currently on my journey to reconnect with my twin flame who is currently in another city going through rehabilitation for alcohol abuse. This is a very emotional time for us both but I feel as though that this may be our last real go around. One question I have is: if I participate in twin flame meditation/telepathy,will he experience it as well, as I am doing so? As an example, I am meditating at home and he is in bed asleep 2 hours away, will he still feel my energy?

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  25. Auzzy says:

    Hi,
    This blog has been of great help..thanks a lot.
    I had found my twin flame 1 year back, but we were far apart, and could not meet and speak easily, especially since she is kind of a popular person, and very successful unlike me. We have been communicating for all this time, and my growth has been slow somewhat…now i find myself unable to communicate because especially since she is a life coach, i dont know how my words will match the thoughts we have been exchanging. It just seems impossible to suddenly tell her one day everything in a way that would make our speech coherent with our thoughts….i dont know what to say… please help if u can

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  26. Trudy says:

    I first read about twin flames on 5/15/15. I remember that date very clearly because the information was such a revelation to me. I have been trying to read and collect more about twin flames ever since and only just found your website. Thank you so much for sharing this part about telepathy. I met my twin flame just a few weeks over 2 years ago at work. It was so unexpected! I turned a corner at the hospital where we were working and he was standing facing away from me talking to 2 other people. I literally stopped in my tracks and just stared at his back for long moments, never even seeing his face that first time. I was so taken with this new stranger, I turned around and went the other way, afraid I would just walk up and run my hand down his tall, lean back. We have gotten slowly acquainted over the past 2 years. He is much younger than I am, though fully adult, and I tried so hard to talk myself out of my attraction. But he surely seems to feel it too, though we never act on it (yet…). He is the runner. That information was such a huge relief to me! He comes over for dinner and we talk and talk and he moves in close to me over and over but never quite makes contact…Lordy! Makes me crazy! I feel him in my head and heart 24/7. I have told him I do and many,many times texted when he needed support or advice or encouragement. But he is SO very cautious and careful. I tell myself it can’t be right for me if it is not right for him, that he has to figure it out. So, I wait. And write ALOT of poems about it! Here’s one:

    Push? Pull?

    I remember that first time…
    The first time I saw you…
    And you, unknowing, all unaware…
    Of my stunned reaction…
    How I was amazed and attracted…
    Momentarily immobilized.

    I hold that moment close…
    Against all your uncertainty…
    Your cautious ambivalence…
    Yes? No? (Yes? No?)…
    Stop? Go? (Stop? Go?)…
    Come on? Hold off? (On? Off?)…
    Approach? Avoid? (Push? Pull?)…
    Think so? Don’t know? (Don’t know?).

    There’s heart pains involved…
    In the ongoing pull-tug…
    Sometimes what you need…
    Isn’t what you expect…
    So how do you decide…
    Can you handle the challenge?

    Do you know what you project…
    Whenever you’re around me…
    Moving in so close, then closer…
    With your long looks and tallness…
    Do you notice my breathlessness…
    And heart faltering pauses…
    Yes? No? Stop? Go?…
    Think so? Don’t know?

    Believe with all your heart…
    The helpful sign encourages…
    On the KFC bathroom wall…
    But offers no enlightenment…
    On how long is too long…
    Or how much is too much?

    And the song playing overhead?…
    “I feel the earth move…
    Under my feet, under my feet…
    I feel the sky tumbling…
    Down, tumbling down…
    Whenever you’re around…”

    All signs point to yes…
    So how to change your no?…
    I believe with all my heart…
    Do you know your own?…
    Can our hearts beat as one…
    Or do we go on alone?

    Trudy 7/12/14

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    • amber6574 says:

      I read about twin flames yesterday and I have been so overwhelmed. The past few months have been hard as its unfolded. I went through trauma, and felt like the universe was trying to tell me something, to pull me toward something. She was there for me. I felt for her long before I figured it out, but felt it was unattainable, didn’t understand, thought I should ignore it, but keep it as close as I can, felt I couldn’t bare to loose her in my life. I didn’t know why or how /why to say so and what if I was wrong and it was all in my head! It’s real and I feel so blessed that I’ve found her, that this happened to me. Now that I know who she is, I wont let go. I’m now crying, and laughing and talking to my twin every day. She wakes me up early and I hear her when I need her most, I call for her, and she responds. I hope she hasn’t felt this rollercoaster along with me, though I’m sure she has. I hope she is okay too. I know she went through this along a while ago, with no one to talk to and that thought pulls at my heart. Internally this connection, has been there all along I just didn’t know, I would respond to her with my gut– even when I didn’t know what she was talking about, my intuition is her and she knows my every next move before it happens to me. I’ve been attracted to her for a long time. I met my twin 3 years ago and we are friends, I should tell her she’s been a best friend to me and I don’t think I ever have. She’s offered me guidance and support to whenever I needed it, and sees me at my worst and best. My twin had known about me for a long time, had found me once long ago and let me go but kept our story safe for all of these years. I remember the story, I saw her name, and the whole vision came back to me. Looking back a few years ago, I remember the day she confirmed who I was in person, she braced herself and ran like she’d seen a ghost. My twin has parts of me and I have parts of her. I feel at home when I’m with her and now that I’ve realized it, i need her to know this more than anything. Our story is so long. She is my friend. She let my story unfold without interference but did everything in her power to protect the future and never let it go. This love came back to me, it;s written in the stars, its in every song I hear. Everyone knows and has known for a long time. Its not my intention to hurt anyone else. But its bigger than ourselves and it will have to happen. thank you for sharing your poem. all signs point to yes..I need her to pull me in. I gave her my word and I will over and over again.

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  27. Sawraj Rey says:

    thanks for the great post…a year back i met my twin flame and i felt a very very strong connection..i never knew what it really was..means thinking same thing dreaming same dream and knowing the emotional storms without uttering a word..its really awesome but now she is quite busy wid her life and career building and we often don’t talk for a week or two but certainly have the strongest of believe that she is uplifting me and my moral and my love for her is getting higher with each passing day despite of the distance…but my problem is that i often fail to call her to talk by heart which i had done many times in past can we regain this special power to let each other feel our souls presence physically and if so how?

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  28. Cara says:

    Everything you have written is exactly what I have also learned through the experience of meeting my twin. Our relationship was intense with an overwhelming spiritual force. We became so excited by the energy and strange occurrences that we told everyone. Family members started to feel we were not good for eachother and, like you, we were not ready to move on to our mission together for higher good. I have noticed that I can go a few years without thinking of my twin flame but when I suffer a crisis he pops into my mind and I wonder if the dramas and obstacles are a test to help my soul rise up so we can meet again. I am not sure if he will be ready in this lifetime because he became quite bitter but, I still remain hopeful waiting for the serendipity moment 🙂 thank you for sharing this x

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  29. Stacy says:

    Hi. So. I met an amazing person when I was fourteen years old. I am now thirty-five. “Daniel” has had the ability to be my voice of reason but could also show me who I really was even if it hurt to see who I was. We were the closest of friends for years and then we dated, we split but I would still talk to him. He got married and so did I but not to each other. Out of respect he and I cut communication after we married. Late 2008 we met up again and I was separated and he was in his same relationship. Earlier that year I started writing a memoir which actually turned into my confession of lost love for him. He found me online and We met up for lunch and chatted over the phone. We “kissed” neither one of us felt guilt but I couldn’t allow us to continue knowing that he was being unfathful to “her” I wanted him and he wanted me but not like that. It was wrong. I ended up moving out of state. I won’t lie, I had so many memories of him from my childhood all the way into my adult years that I needed to block him out. Two years ago we start talking again. He is having marital problems and even addiction problems and as much as I wanted to RUN to him I couldn’t. He needed to do things on his own. Long story short… Six months ago I post a music video and a plea for Daniel to talk to me. He also was trying to locate me. This is “our” theme. We go back and forth but never actually lose the other person. I never will lose him and my love for him is selfless. Anyway, we reconnect. Time never actually came between us. He finally left his toxic relationship, sought help for his addiction and fixed everything that he needed to and is still working on other things to become better. Same in my case. I left an abusive marriage and found my own strength in being single and independent. A series of events happened and now I am back in my home state of Texas. Guess what? Daniel and I are together. I mean really together. As in I am having Thanksgiving with my best friend and now boyfriend of twenty-one years. Supposedly we make people uncomfortable with how affectionate we are but I have years to make up for. For the record. I never felt jealousy when he was with someone else but I felt pain to see him unhappy. I never feel anger toward him or him with me. What Danny and I have had over the years is beyond explication. One of our mutual friends of twenty years stated to us that it was about time we announced it that it took us long enough and that she and everyone else knew all along that we lived one another. If Daniel and I are not the true definition of a “twin flame” I don’t know what is. I feel his happiness, sadness, desperation and yearning without him saying anything at all. We are now finally where we need to be and I thank GOD for bringing him back to me. I always knew it would happen though. And. If I may quote Daniel… He would say to me at 15 ” One day, Stacy you will be mine. Oh, YES. You WILL be mine. I was always his though… He was always mine. I want to wish everyone love and blessings. Thanks for reading. ~ Stacy

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  31. Ashling-Atieno says:

    I am very new in all meditation, learning everything and sorts. So I have been seeing this one person all the time while meditating to open and cleanse the chakras or trying to connect with twin flame.

    I have met this person already few years ago. But since I started to actively meditate it seems more and more my kind is on that person. My heart says it is, but mind doesn’t. I guess trying to be rational. As I never did in my life for pure heart desire.

    Is it sign of twin flame?

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    • doucejonna says:

      Dear Ashling-Atieno, thank you so much for your comment and apologies for responding so late. It’s hard to keep on top of all the messages and comments 🙂
      I am sure that there is a reason why you are seeing this one person during your meditations, especially if you are actively seeking to connect with your Twin flame while doing so.
      Often our twin flame is someone we meet earlier in life and things just don’t work out, leaving us confused about why they ever came into our lives in the first place. Sometimes they were just passing through and we always felt a familiarity and peace when they were around, along with an attraction and a pull to them that was nothing like anything we’d ever known, but not necessarily a connection that felt romantic or sexual.
      Your mind will never confirm to you who your twin flame is. It cannot and it will not. In fact, it will probably tell you things like “they’re not your type”, “it’s just a passing thing”, etc. Only your heart can tell you who the twin flame is. Usually this takes time. It’s not just because they appear in your mind – a karmic partner might do so too, because the karmic pull is usually very strong, to come together and receive the karmic lessons of that connection.
      My advice to you would be to, if possible, seek to reconnect with this person on a friendly basis, to see what the real person feels like. Maybe they are also experiencing the pull to you? Also allow time to show you who your twin flame is – and for the rest of it, learn to follow your heart and intuition as it will not lead you astray
      All my love and blessings,
      Jonna x 💖💖

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      • Ashling Atieno says:

        Dear Jonna,

        Thank you very much for your reply. 🙂

        Me and that person those years ago had a relationship, but because of my decisions we became apart. In a very painful way actually. I couldn’t get him out of mind, but with time, that connection weakened. Over the years, six exactly, didn’t feel anything. I am in a marriage, well not so happy marriage recently, and because of last emotional hit from this marriage, i lost balance and started to re-valuate everything around me. Started meditating and there this person was. He always would smile and tell me it is all right.

        About contacting him, i have tried, but he is not reachable for now, as he changed all the email accounts and only recently i have come to grasp his name and address he might live. For some reason, my heart is ordering me, to write a letter, i have done that already, but i can not sent it, mind keeps bringing this fear of destroying completely my marriage.

        I am just a bit confused, I don’t want to cause more disruption in any situation anymore, before i want to start something new, with the heart, i want to know my self and grow myself to fully be me. In marriage i have become someone elses idea of me, for years i thought it is ok to please everyone, but i was so wrong.

        I am giving time, as you say, but sometimes i wonder if that person will ever talk of forgive me for the decisions i made those years ago.

        I guess i need to just give it a shot, might be a chance.

        Thank you.

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  32. Matthew says:

    Recently, i have been experiencing a knowledge of a kindred spirit who has entered my life. I have been happily married to an amazing woman for 12 yrs, we are in the thick of raising four kids with a very dynamic life, immersed in a very yight community with many other children. We are one of those ‘power’ couples, a hub for our community… We have had profound experiences together and are clearly meant to enjoy thisbpayh together…. I’ve never experienced any waivering in this experience with her other than surpassing many of lifes stresses and challenges… Now, someone recently came intoour lives…. The first moment of meeting her, she came ip out of the dark at a friends bonfire and sat beside me… Immediately we connected in conversation, and i had a strong feeling that there was a lot more to yhis person than a new friend… Over the course of 7 months, she has become intertwined in our community, pretty much everyone has fallen in love with her including all the children… Mutual connections that go deep all the way to childhood/ synchronicities( her strong ties with many of our friends, even her parents owning a cabin a stones throw from our house). I’ve managed to steer my thoughts towards appreciating her as a true friend and she has earned a place within our home and community… She connects with my wife on a deeper level, and my childen already consider her an aunt… Recently i’ve experienced visions of huge, profound experiences with her that transcend most physical experiences… I have spent countless hours and writings sorting out my thoughts… It is tricky, because i want to eeach out and communicate, but it would not be fair to her, i would never want the heaviness o disrupting the natura flow… I am commited to my wife and family, and would never want to affect that… So ive internalized all of this, focusing on patience and trusting that universe will unfold as it should… Accepting that i may have to very patient… ( perhaps ill be 80 when it finally works out to reveal my knowledge in a healthy way… For now i wrestle with a desire for confirmation, knowing that its bestyo wait and not mess with this natural flow. Everything led me to here, now, and thats a place where i can share a wonderful friendship with this kindred spirit, loving her as a friend, and experiencing her love for my family and community… I cannot be selfish and be impatient….

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  33. Matthew says:

    Some of the experiences i’ve had reflecting on this kindred spirit are visions of reaching higher conciousness together… Visionsof sitting and embracing, speaking deeply for hours… I had anight where i could not sleep at all, i literally embraced her ina lucid drem the entirenight, comforting and reassuring her as she has been going through some internal struggles of her own. I resonate with allofher past experiences and communicationflows super easy. I deeply know that we could share i higher love, but i’mat a junctionin my life where this is not possible without affecting many other lives i’m intertwined with… I am now focusing on improvig myself and all my relations, balancing myself so i am ready to accept universes natural unfolding and quelling my desire reach out for confirmation. It will be quiet burden to bear and i am fully aware that it may last for a lifetime, i can only trust that it is all meant to be. If i can attain my own potential within it all, and maintain an open pathway of clear communication with her, then i am happy

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    • Veronique D says:

      You remind me of someone who is really important in my life. I feel the same connection to him as you do for your kindred spirit. His soul is so bright that it fills me with warmth and happiness. I love him so much.

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  34. doucejonna says:

    Thank you Matthew for the lovely comments and for sharing some of your story here on Mirror of My Soul. You are among friends here who understand the experience 🙂 Welcome!
    Your story is not unusual in the sense that many twins meet when they are already in existing marriages and relationships. What is however rarely discussed is what is supposed to happen when the person is “happily married” and I guess this is the heart of your question. There are many twin flames who claim to be “happily married” and resist the twin flame connection on that basis. For them, the happily married actually means “I’ve made my bed – now I lie in it, so I might as well believe that I am happy”.. If often simply hides that fact that they are too afraid to leave because of the impact it would have on their community, families, children etc. However this is NOT always the case – and I believe you may be one of these exceptions. 🙂
    I want to congratulate you first of all for being so spiritually open and mature for being able to see this connection with the other woman with honest eyes… So many married men whey they meet their twin flame quickly shove her out of their lives because they think this person will “destroy” their marriage.. (Even though often the risk lies with the person themselves who subconsciously cannot trust themselves). Your point of view is so refreshing in the sense that you see how much love she can bring to your life and to everyone you also love. This is what a true twin flame is like. You have correctly understood that your dilemma only lies in making sense of it all for yourself in a way that you are being fair to not only her but also to your wife, family etc. You are a good man Matthew, and a fair one too.
    I recognise very well the experiences you tell me you’ve shared with your twin of comforting her in lucid visions and dreams all night, reassuring her. Me and my twin do that too. He even said to me once that I represent for him a calm and reassuring spiritual and emotional energy that he sometimes actively seeks. It’s is very much the way I connect with him, often at nights. There is nothing wrong with this, this is how your souls naturally seek out each other and as you know, it is something that benefits you and everyone around you too.
    The way you want to reach out to her, yet not wanting to disturb the natural flow or affecting your marriage.. This is very much how my twin flame has been with me, except that we were also lovers in the past. I am all for reaching out to her and talking to her about it, after all, she is probably feeling something too (definitely if she is your twin flame).. However perhaps allow things to develop at their own speed, staying in your integrity but also allowing your heart to guide for the benefit of all involved. If this is your twinflame, she will always be a part of you whether you are physically around her or not.. So learn to deal with her and your feelings for her. As a twinflame, her role in your life is directly linked to how much you allow yourself to love YOU, i.e. Your self-love.
    Patience is a key virtue on this journey which steers us wherever it is that we need to go. Keep cultivating this patience and allow things to unfold in no hurry, but also learn to recognise when your soul needs to act, to speak out etc.
    Yes, this connection will transform you if you allow it, and will bring you closer to the true you, the spiritual you. It is a gift that not many know how to receive, but from your thoughts it is clear that you may well be one of the few that do.. 💜💜
    Love and blessings to you, your family and Twin,
    Jonna xx 💕💕

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  35. matthew says:

    Thank you for your response, I definitely feel very clearly understood. Many of my thought processes have been spiralling, but always returning to an overwhelming joy in knowing, but accompanied by a weight of choices i may have to make, patience i will have to muster, strength to keep grounded and still give my all towards my family… I am no stranger to persevering, and patience is a virtue i possess in abundance, but i suppose when the reality of questioning true hapiness comes into play, i begin to realize that i may have put myself aside a little too thoroughly… As a younger man, i sailed through many epic experiences and realized my true potential in this life. I was a solo journeyer, content to be alone but seeking that higher connection, and dreaming of building a family, a home, and co-creating a community… Meeting my wife, who shared so many of these values and dreams, and full of love towards me that i had never felt before. Together we have thrived and achieved many of those dreams… I love our family, home, and community and where we are at… In all of this, i am realizing that perhaps as much of myself that i’ve poured into this experience, i’ve known all along that i did not feel love towards my partner to the highest potential, that i always suspected existed… In all lifes challenges, i became the steady keel, the rock, the grounding, for my partner who has never fully grown in herself… Despite putting everything i possess into this life together, i am constantly feeling like i am inadequate at resolving her insecurities… I’m never able to give her the intimateness to a level she seeks… I try so hard, and often attribute it to my solo journeyer nature, my higher understanding of myself, blockages i posess surrounding intimateness, maybe unable to cross that boundary in protecting myself, and my vision of reaching my highest potential… Upon meeting my potential twin, i have now been faced with what seems to be an awakening of a love-giving potential within me i had not realized before… My desire to help/fix/heal my wife has left me feeling guilty, exasperated, and reisigned to fulfilling obligations to her and the family we created… My own desires looking outside of that have never found any tangible reason to stray from my steadfastness till now… My concern of causing an unravelling of all that i’ve been dedicated to for 12 years, beginning a new chapter with tons of baggage, guilt, negative thoughts towards me, and pain are enough to make me very cautious. I dont know how to truly know if my potential twin is really truly what i believe that she is, but the synchronicities surrounding all of this and the fact that all of this new paradigm has opened up for me now, suggests that i am experiencing clear vision, and not a delusion to escape my life the way it is now… I think im prepared to be very patient, but im concerned that knowing this truth will be impossible to hide for long, especially because my wife already seeks so much re-affirmation of my love. My potential twin just stayed with us for a few days, and our home was particilarly crazy, so it probably wasnt the best timing for a visit… I could not take her out of my thoughts, dreamed about her each night… Almost had an evening with no one else around, and was fully surrendering to that it could be the time to completely open up… A snow storm prevented that and all of a sudden time was up… She was moving on, and serendipitously we were lucky enough to share a very warm private good bye… I could not help but let it slip that i had a lot i wanted to share with her, when the timing was right and she just replied ‘ i know’. Now i face the challenge of refocusing on my family, my business, my inner growth and be patient for the right timing… I must reel in my desire to reach out for confirmation and trust that universe will unfold as it should… Breathe

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    • K says:

      Matthew, I became very emotional after reading your posts. I had never heard of the twin flame concept before until I was physically with mine several months back. I was utterly confounded by the intense kindred bond I share with this person. Now my whole life has changed completely. I am uncovering all sorts of synchronicities, connections, and visions due to my recent spiritual awakening. All of this has been ignited by being with my twin flame. I even have dreams or sensations that my TF is holding me at night, and that we communicate telepathetically. Sometimes I feel as though I am going crazy but your words put weight behind my gut feeling – this is real. Thank you.

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    • Matthew says:

      Well time has passed and i’ve spent most of my thoughts on patience and trust in universe unfolding in the best way… Coincedence or not, my life has been cranked up a notch… Challenges in almost every aspect of my life, financial turmoil, kids activities/responsibilities going to new levels, and of course challenges with my wife and i… From day one in our relationship she has had insecurities about my level of intimateness, how i show my love… Because i was always a lone traveller, and never had a relationship until we got together, i always assured her that i showed my love in other ways, but tried and tried and tried to satisfy her need for constant assurance… Perhaps now she is sensing my distance because i am honestly spending most of my thoughts with my twin potential… Dreams, first thought in the morning, every chance i get throughout a day… I feel like i’ve not let it affect my relationship, but our busy lives do not allow as much time to connect as it is, and truly i am questioning the direction i must take… She has said to me on many occasions that she wants to flee from the stress in our lives… Jump off a cliff, hide in a cave, travel with abandon… I am caught in this place where i want to fix her problems, work even harder to make it right, bring her the happiness that i have always self sacrificed to give… After all these years and all these efforts, she is still unhappy and insecure… The timing of my twin coming into the picture is perhaps my wakeup call that my dedication/ selfsacrifice/ effort may be misplaced… I may not be serving my wife any more by trying to bear her burdens… She even said to me that maybe i am not meant to be with her ( i think fishing for more reassurance that i am dedicated to her)…. I am so torn between slugging along as i have been, knowing that eventually i must break free to unite with my twin, but hopefully with better timing so others arent as hurt in the process… Do i patiently wait for universe to put all the pieces in place, or must i man up and start creating this change… Manifesting is not just waiting till something happens, it is focusing on a goal and making choices in each moment that make it happen…. I have been lucky enough to be opening communication with my twin to new levels with full honesty and trust… We’ve confided in eachother, and have grown closer…. I have still hesitated to communicate my full true feelings of love towards her, for fear of putting her in an awkward position between my wife and i… I dont want to open that can of worms if im not ready.. Although oart of me is sure she already knows everything i would tell her, and i do deaire the affirmation that it is not all in my head… The friendship we’ve developed, the confidance is so perfect, i wouldnt want to risk complicating it… Especially because i am so fully entrenched in family mode that it will take lots of time to be able to reallign my life without tons of complication… Its nice to hear others resonating with these similar experiences… I’m definitely excited at the potentials that this knowedge has opened up for me… My dreams are consistant and solid and phenomenal… The thought of actually realizing this higher love that i’ve somehow always known was out there for me, but seemed too ellusive or fantastical… Now I’ve felt it, but of course it is still unreachable without major obstacles…. I’ve written a pretty intense letter that thanks her for her pesence in my life, still doesnt proclaim my love and desire to be with her, but assures her that i honour and love her as a friend… I’ve been unable to send it yet though, waiting to make sure it is the right timing….

      Ps…. My heart leapt through the roof when i read the reply from ‘K’. My twins name begins with K and for a moment i thought she may be reading all this as well… Wouldnt that be incredible… Perhaps she is way further into this than i realize and i’ve been stressing for no reason… Perhaps its time to just put it all on the table and face the hard choices… Maybe i’ve thought about it long enough…. It has remained solid and consistant for months so i know my feelings are genuine….

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      • K says:

        My Twin Flame’s middlle name starts with an “M”. What are the chances? People think I look Danish.

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      • shopk1234 says:

        Thank you for sharing your story.. I feel so much compassion from you. I’m so taken back by it. I’m experiencing something similar in my life. Its so overwhelming I don’t know where to turn. The idea of this person, is something I’ve learned of, and studied. I considered myself a spiritual person for so long, but embarrassed to say when something like this actually happens to you, and its right infront of you it’s beyond anything imaginable.. Its hard to put into words, hard to find anyone to believe you, and hard to find anywhere to start the conversation. That said, I knowingly have someone like this in my life, and she is my best friend, , but I never dreamed of finding my twin..its even more rare.

        I feel the pain for you, that I feel in me, but especially in you having a family I cant imagine what your going through. I too have a husband who is great person, and who I committed to build a life with. I too feel I cant express my devotion, love, security in a way that meets his satisfaction now..I’m not giving enough and I don’t know how or what to do about it. I cant deliver what he needs from me and yet I have in the past and now I am stuck unable to move forward. Slugging along, in my thoughts. So ashamed in myself and even the idea of hurting someone else and feeling the way I do for my twin.

        My feelings started to grow for my twin and I felt closer and connected more than ever. My heart is filled with so much joy ..and love for him. I know he senses it. Part of me became scared of the idea I could loose him forever, in life.. after I realized he was my twin. Was living in denial and loosing a gift like this a life worth being proud of? Could i really let that happen? I don’t think I can say goodbye. it would crush me. I realized then how deep my feelings were for my twin. I was fighting something along with the stressors of daily life as well too and it did not end well. I think i am aware of what had boiled up deep inside of me that caused chaos, and a complete nightmare. I feel like everyone in the world knew something but me, and I was working against the universe. I felt guilty for feeling the way I feel but also comfort in reading others stories, in researching more about twin flames.. as it entirely defines us.. in a nut shell.

        I feel for you in that you don’t want to hurt anyone else in the process, family, friends. Live is full of more an more responsibility especially when kids come in the picture. I ask myself, and you since you are sharing such a similar heartbreaking but enlightening experience with me all at once.. if everyone really knew what has happened would they find a way to understand, would they be able to in their hearts deny it? would they find forgiveness, would they seek their own spiritual awakening? Would they want to find their own truth, and twin in life too? would they find faith or be inspired? I’m sure some would find understanding, compassion and forgiveness, and some would not at all. I saw my twin recently and felt anger..and then so broken. Though none of it is his fault or anyone else’s. Putting negativity out in the universe after discovering what a blessing I had sitting in front of me, was the last thing I should have done. I then felt compassion for if he ever knew..and felt it too.. what kind of pain would he have gone through all this time? I want to cause no one suffering. I feel so blessed and filled with joy to have my twin in this lifetime. Its a divine experience even if it comes with much pain ahead, especially when the “can of worms opens” as you say.

        I know our situations may be different, but also the same and I thank you for sharing your story and being brave like everyone else’s stories I have read. I think I’ve realized I’m meant to live an extraordinary life. While an extraordinary and honest life, living one of your highest self may have some incredibly painful moments..months..years..i believe what is on the other side is so beautiful. I believe that i was faced with my situation because this was the life I meant to live.. meant to handle. I think about all of the brave and inspiring people in my life.. and in history. When I think about history, and life.. this is nothing to run from. I think I’d be told to be brave, to somehow inspire others, to follow my heart. The truth is , my twin already knows it, I wouldn’t even have to say a word ..he knows the love I have for him . I think its time I have the courage to share it with him..

        -K.

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      • shopk1234 says:

        Thank you for sharing your story.. I feel so much compassion from you. I’m so taken back by it. I’m experiencing something similar in my life. Its so overwhelming I don’t know where to turn. The idea of this person, is something I’ve learned of, and studied. I considered myself a spiritual person for so long, but embarrassed to say when something like this actually happens to you, and its right infront of you it’s beyond anything imaginable.. Its hard to put into words, hard to find anyone to believe you, and hard to find anywhere to start the conversation. That said, I knowingly have someone like this in my life, and she is my best friend, , but I never dreamed of finding my twin..its even more rare.

        I feel the pain for you, that I feel in me, but especially in you having a family I cant imagine what your going through. I too have a husband who is great person, and who I committed to build a life with. I too feel I cant express my devotion, love, security in a way that meets his satisfaction now..I’m not giving enough and I don’t know how or what to do about it. I cant deliver what he needs from me and yet I have in the past and now I am stuck unable to move forward. Slugging along, in my thoughts. So ashamed in myself and even the idea of hurting someone else and feeling the way I do for my twin.

        My feelings started to grow for my twin and I felt closer and connected more than ever. My heart is filled with so much joy ..and love for him. I know he senses it. Part of me became scared of the idea I could loose him forever, in life.. after I realized he was my twin. Was living in denial and loosing a gift like this a life worth being proud of? Could i really let that happen? I don’t think I can say goodbye. it would crush me. I realized then how deep my feelings were for my twin. I was fighting something along with the stressors of daily life as well too and it did not end well. I think i am aware of what had boiled up deep inside of me that caused chaos, and a complete nightmare. I feel like everyone in the world knew something but me, and I was working against the universe. I felt guilty for feeling the way I feel but also comfort in reading others stories, in researching more about twin flames.. as it entirely defines us.. in a nut shell.

        I feel for you in that you don’t want to hurt anyone else in the process, family, friends. Live is full of more an more responsibility especially when kids come in the picture. I ask myself, and you since you are sharing such a similar heartbreaking but enlightening experience with me all at once.. if everyone really knew what has happened would they find a way to understand, would they be able to in their hearts deny it? would they find forgiveness, would they seek their own spiritual awakening? Would they want to find their own truth, and twin in life too? would they find faith or be inspired? I’m sure some would find understanding, compassion and forgiveness, and some would not at all. I saw my twin recently and felt anger..and then so broken. Though none of it is his fault or anyone else’s. Putting negativity out in the universe after discovering what a blessing I had sitting in front of me, was the last thing I should have done. I then felt compassion for if he ever knew..and felt it too.. what kind of pain would he have gone through all this time? I want to cause no one suffering. I feel so blessed and filled with joy to have my twin in this lifetime. Its a divine experience even if it comes with much pain ahead, especially when the “can of worms opens” as you say.

        I know our situations may be different, but also the same and I thank you for sharing your story and being brave like everyone else’s stories I have read. I think I’ve realized I’m meant to live an extraordinary life. While an extraordinary and honest life, living one of your highest self may have some incredibly painful moments..months..years..i believe what is on the other side is so beautiful. I believe that i was faced with my situation because this was the life I meant to live.. meant to handle. I think about all of the brave and inspiring people in my life.. and in history. When I think about history, and life.. this is nothing to run from. I think I’d be told to be brave, to somehow inspire others, to follow my heart. The truth is , my twin already knows it, I wouldn’t even have to say a word ..he knows the love I have for him . I think its time I have the courage to share it with him.

        K.

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  36. floy2d says:

    Thanks so much for your pieces – they’re beautifully articulated and I really take comfort in reading this – it’s hard to find human, relatable, frank writing that isn’t hard-selling readings or services.

    I met my twin 2.5 years ago, at that time unaware of anything even remotely related to spirituality. Since then it’s been a rollercoaster ride. I’ve only recently “come out” as a Twin 🙂 before this I kept it quite private because it’s such a bizarre train of events. I’m a gay twin as well, in a cross cultural twin connection (could it be more challenging!) right now he’s cut ties almost completely, which I understand.

    Just a small question – your telepathic connection, how soon did that develop? I am unsure if I have developed that as yet, wondering how it’ll go… Thank you so much! X

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  37. G says:

    Wow! Feeling their energy. Oh yes. I know that one very well – it’s part of what freaked me out and had me running in the first place. Never known anything like it, nor experienced anything even remotely like it.

    It’s like liquid lead and molten fire both spreading from my solar plexus through to every extremity of my body. It was all-encompassing and me feel wrapped in love from the inside out, safe, protected and as though noting at all could harm me. Really, who, in their right mind, would run from that? Me, that’s who.

    Physically, it felt almost heavy (not in an unpleasant way) and is so consuming that when it occurred, I could focus on nothing else until it subsided. As we live in different States, I knew it meant he was either thinking of me, or waiting to speak with me – and sure enough, so he was.

    And yes, now that we’ve parted ways – if I’m brutally honest with myself – it does feel like there’s a gaping hole inside of me that no amount of ‘busy-ness’ can fill up.

    So the chaser becomes the runner and the runner, the chaser – although I’ve stopped chasing now. Picking sores doesn’t heal them.

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  38. Tammy RN says:

    I’ve been studying soul consciousness for awhile. I stumbled upon the twin flame awareness reading internet articles. I was married to my twin flame in my thirties. Our relationship ended with him being the runner. Last year we started texting again. We were apart for a decade with no communication. He was remarried and so am I. We met again twice. He lives in Michigan, and I live in Alabama where we met….we decided to stop texting as both our spouses found out. Crazy thing is his wife left him suddenly, and I am now separated from my husband. He and I talk about working things out yet….j is always there…I went and saw him for a weekend but, I could tell he wanted me still but, his fear of me was evident. He told me I was his home…that he knew he would always love me, he wanted to try again when I got myself sorted out. He stopped responding to me once I got home, his fb profile is of him and another woman…I felt rejected by him all over again…I just continue to keep my heart chakra open. I get this heaviness and achy sensation inside as I feel my heart could break into..I weep for him but, I just get out of ego and send him love and light… that is what I know is forever…beyond this life…j is sewn inside the fabric of my heart…I’m haunted by that closed door…destiny will be manifested I just work on loving myself…I feel him all the time…swirling inside my thoughts. I don’t choose this…it chose us….he feels this too…I’m certain as I breathe…the breath between us is one and the same…I do wonder if he will evolve as he’s in ego right now. I’m more evolved spiritually than he. He’s a mason so he is big into that. He’s also very conditional with me. He isn’t ready for me I suppose. I miss him always…

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  39. lila says:

    I experience a kind of telepathy with my TF, but we are living apart, very far away and have no personal communication apart that. This connection started felling tiring to me while I have to move on and it reminds me his existence. Maybe that is denial, but I wish I could stop, and I have decided to try. Otherwise I believe I am sabotaging myself since I want to find a life partner.

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    • doucejonna says:

      Lila, thank you for your lovely comment. The problem you face with the physical distance is a reality for many twin flame connections and it certainly has been in mine too. The spiritual and telepathic connection is however very real so I would encourage you to develop it and reach out to your twin through it whenever you feel like it.
      The connection will never go away but it may remain in the background for a while as you direct your attention towards other things and people in your life. If you feel that you want to find a life partner and start a family then perhaps this is a necessity for you on the twin flame path. One relationship is not more valuable than another; they are simply different. As long you do not move on in denial of the connection with your twin (because this will come back to bite you!) but rather as an act of love towards him and yourself, you will be fine. If you are meant to be with him the opportunity will come around at a later time in your lives. Wishing you happiness in the new year and many blessings.
      Love, Jonna

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  40. MJJJ says:

    Hi there.

    I’m here because I’d like to share my ‘story’. I met this guy after periods of yearning and praying to meet the ‘perfect’ guy for me, he was literally to the T everything that I wanted and asked for in prayer. Literally. As I write this, it still shocks me how he was a physical embodiment of everything that I vocalised during my secret prayers to God. Prior to meeting him, I would act out in my head as though I already had that person in my life, and lo and behold, he came into my life during those moments in my life where I truly believed (mentally) that I had found the one for me. I would sort of act out like I had a partner, I would do things like making sure I wore pretty and clean clothes to bed because I wanted to look good for my partner, or just doing my hair all nice and pretty during the day because I wanted to look good for my yet-non-existent partner. I was playing the principles of the law of attraction and I didn’t even know it at the time.

    So, anyway, I met him through the most unpredictable means possible! Very unconventional!
    We had this instant connection, it was insane, he was everything I wanted in a guy and he told me numerous times that I was the perfect girl he could ask for, right from the color skin tone he finds attractive in a women to characteristics. We had so many similairities and sychronicities in our past that it was just so bewildering at times. There was one time when talking to him that I had this overwhelming gut feeling that washed over me, I couldn’t even control it, or describe it properly, but something deep inside my heart told me THIS is the man I am going to marry. There were certain things about him that my MIND, my logical mind resisted, and after a while I ruined away from him. I cut off all contact. We didn’t speak for at least about a year, but what was strange was he NEVER left my mind, like I could not FORGET him, no matter how much my logical self resisted his thoughts, I just COULDNT forget about him. I persisted for the longest time in resisting my feelings, I told myself if he really liked me he would have contacted me, I told myself all these negative affirmations but even then it didn’t feel ‘right’ to me in my heart, whenever I would resist him it just never clicked. So, after nearly a year of not communicating with him he messaged me on FB declaring how he missed me and could never stop thinking about me, and so many other things.
    We talked and talked for a few days, then we sort of stopped talking again because again I ran away and he ran away too I guess.

    I don’t know how to explain it but its as though even when I think of dating other guys, a little part of me, just like a irking part of my brain always nudges me to tell me this is not the right person, you should be with ‘him’ — the guy I’m talking about.
    I’m here because I really have felt so confused lately about my feelings, its like I WANT to move on, I really really want to see myself with another guy, but SOMETHING in my just won’t FULLY allow me to. My heart sort of yearns for this guy.

    —-ALSO—

    I forgot to mention when we first started talking, he knew things about me like right off the bat that no-one in the world would have known about me. It was insane, literally, it actually blew my mind how he came to know things about my deeper self that no-one not even my family know about me. We just had this insane chemistry that I can never forget.

    I don’t quite know where to go from here. I’m fairly happy with my life right now, but I guess I yearn to be a in fulfilling relationship too. Its not a need for me at the moment, more just a want, I personally really want to get over him but I also sort of……dont. I don’t know how to describe it. Its a mixture of feelings. It annoys me at times. When I’m with him I feel so at peace, I feel at home, as though everything it right. When we’re apart I miss him terribly, and I KNOW I KNOW 100%, without a shadow of a doubt, that he feels similar feelings. I can’t explain how I know but I just know, it’s not even me imposing my own feelings into this, I just know because a lot of the times when I think of him they come to me so randomly and I know they’re not my own thoughts! He’s not even my ABSOLUTE IDEAL TYPE, although he also is in many ways, but I know for sure, this is not the same as a general crush.
    I’m just trying to figure out this roller coaster >.<. Can anyone shed some light on what could be going on here and the possible action (if any) I should take?!

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  41. Cindy says:

    I have read so many stories tonight and i’m just so amazed! I too have a similar connection with someone. Today I got a very powerful surge of energy relating to this person, identical to what i’ve felt before (that’s why i’m here). It was completely random and very strong. In the moment i could only describe it as ‘I can feel him/ I can feel him thinking about me’, and it’s so strong that you’re sure. Felt like a random huge wave of immense feeling hitting me all of a sudden. The thing is, we were never in a relationship, honestly we hardly knew each other, even so, the relationship that we did have was still filled with the same sorts of aspects of spirtual relationships. I remember the first time i dreamt of him, it was such a personal dream, he’d come to stay the night at my parents’ house, of course the next day I felt so confused because I was walking around feeling like I actually knew him. As some time went on I felt these feelings without the dreaming, i’d get these sudden urges to go and talk to him about personal things like it was nothing and then i’d realise that we didn’t even have that relationship. And when we did speak, I felt so comfortable with him, like I was free to be myself, the me that I can be with my family and close friends. One of the main aspects was the synchronicity. And this is one aspect that I cannot let go and allow myself to blame my wild imagination on, and my incapability to distinguish my empathetic fantasies from reality. There were so many moments of synchronicty! We’d randomly bump into each other at just the right time, even when it seemed ridiculous for us to align at those moments! The synchronicity was a big one for me because it’s like that quote “synchronicity is an ever present reality for those who have eyes to see” and it’s true. And I definitely don’t believe it when people say that those moments are coincidental, there just too ironic to be coincidences. A few other things to add: when we met (when i wasn’t interested) he’d been molding this ball of goo with his hands (a stall to make goo haha) as we shared a moment about how cool it was, and just as he had to deal with another person he passed it to me and I felt such a strange exchange of energy. Of course that might also have been my imagination but I recently read someone else’s story about a handshake and a similar feeling. One thing that confuses me is the very beginning of our relationship. For a year we had been in the same building, we had no business with each other and yet I’d see him around a lot, to say that I felt an instant connection would be a lie. I spoke to him once when he was new, because I (like everyone else) was fascinated at this new pretty attractive guy. I was expecting something more from him after I’d tied to speak to him but he sort of brushed it away and moved on to the next person trying to capture his attention. Like I said, a year went by and it was quiet. How can that be if a soul connection exists between us? When we eventually did start noticing each other, it was totally out of the blue- in fact it was him who showed me the inital interest. I should also add that it all ended in July when he left for a new position at a new workplace. It was like a gust of wind, the entire experience! Totally random and quite short-lived. I matched up our birthdays too and quite a few websites were suggesting that there was a karmic connection and that there was a mutual feeling of being on the same wavelength’. One report went as far as to say that there were memories from a past life that we can not access today and that the spiritual connection is strongest of all. I have not given much detail as to why our relationship could not develop further but I can say that like many others, there are factors keeping us separate unfortunately. However deep down I feel like it’s unfunished business that it’s very possible that we might possibly meet again someday when we’re older and matured. As I described the feeling of being sure that I could feel him today, I feel similarly about meeting him again one day. Of course I’m not nearly as confident about it as the awareness of those feelings I felt earlier on, and still I am confused about what type of connection we have, but I know that no matter how I try to distract myself and think i’ve let go, something is still there and there must be a reason for that?

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  42. newbie says:

    Hi. As with many here I appreciate the information. I’m living this experience myself as well. However I must say I knew nothing of this topic until today. I was searching about relationships where you feel so calm and at peace that you lose track of time. I came upon this idea of twin flame. I can say that I had no expectation of meeting my bf. It just happened one night. I had swore off men all together after a terrible abusive 15 year marriage. Anyway, we met and he asked me for coffee. The next date dinner. He kissed me at the end of that date and the electricity if you want to call it that was different. He said goodbye and walked into a parking garage to get his car. I have no idea why but I found myself putting my car in park right in the street and jumped out. He turned and looked at me and almost ran down the parking ramp, grabbed me hugged me and we kissed endlessly. It was like a reunion that I could not explain. It felt so right yet so overpowering and so confusing. I did not know feelings could feel like that. It made all my past issues and problems seem like minor, insignificant and not even worth thinking about again. He has no idea about twin flame yet he constantly tells me he feels like one with me. He is just as confused. The other weird thing is we grew up in totally different states. We both stayed in terrible marriages for over 15 years. Our favorite band in high school was the Who. We both eat every healthy–neither like croutons on salad or chocolate. We both have gotten seriously into cycling at different times in our lives and the similarities go on and on. This is also very strange to me. In a nutshell I’m just coming to grips with this possibility. I’m almost resisting it but at the same time happier than I ever dreamed I could be. I told him I am thankful everyday. If this is all I get I will never need more. Even if he goes away that’s okay. I’ve loved and been loved to a degree that my mind still cannot comprehend. I don’t try to understand I just let my heart feel, protect and give to him. I cannot talk to others about this because they will think I’ve lost my mind. Thanks for letting me vent.

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  43. vita says:

    🙂 have found this awesome TF book, can only suggest to everyone or write me to send you one https://spencerandsuzanne.atavist.com/true-love-is-real-ebook?promo have fun all of you ❤

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  44. lila says:

    Hello, there!
    I am back and different! I visited my mentor and reiki expert in order to cut the cords with my tf. or the guy I believe is my tf, but I cut all my fetters, instead! I realised that all I was annoyed by was the fact that by this telepathy thing is I was remembering my fetters, which became clearer after I met him. At first I was feeling completely peaceful inside, free and happy now, I am going through a weird phase which, my mentor describes as clearing up the closet.. I can’t imagine what is coming next and whether I will still have feelings for the guy supposed to be my tf, I don’t know whether that story is a tf story or something else, I know that it is a very hard and difficult process I am going through since then which makes me feel better.

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  45. Manda L says:

    I am recovering from several years of alcohol abuse that I believe was an attempt to silence my feelings for and thoughts of my twin flame. Now sober, I recently began meditation and doing yoga to calm the energies in my body instead of suppressing them. In turn I’m now experiencing very powerful dreams with my twin flame, where it presses so hard on my chest I often wake with labored breathing and heart flutters once or twice a week. We met in 1st grade, became friends, and in 8th grade we had a kindling of souls and began dating. It was volatile, but also overflowing with incredible positive energy that poured into our families lives as well. Everyone would remark about how alike we were, being able to know exactly what the other was thinking or even doing, even being apart as kids. Attraction, same-thinking, same-doing, you name it. When things ended when we were around 18, I had a hard time putting the energy to rest. At times it is overwhelming, although we haven’t had a real verbal connection for nearly a decade. Both of us are married to other people… Last night I had this impressively strange dream. I saw eyes, I recognized them as my twins. He was missing a chip of his iris and I noticed the eyes in this dream matched his, color, strand for strand, and the chip. Then like a camera lens going out of focus we sat and talked. Laughing, enjoying each other’s company. I could hear leaves rustling around us in a gentle breeze and this overwhelmingly beautiful light flooded my dream. Coming in bright and fading gently with ease, like sunlight through a blowing tree’s branches. I woke feeling completely refreshed and then found myself bawling. Full blown sobbing at different moments today. Overwhelmed by the beauty of this dream and the sense of my soul’s recognition in his? I know for certain, It was by far the most beautiful dream I have ever experienced and I truly believe after soul searching all day, that this was my twin flame’s message to me. I’ve felt his soul close to my own today. I want to send positivity back to him and let him know I miss him and desperately want him in my life. Do you have any tips for meditation on this? Thank you very much for sharing your own experiences and helping guide all of us.

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  46. Susan says:

    Thank you

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  47. Meera says:

    So then, if you haven’t met your twin flame in this life, but remember them from your last, is it possible to be energetically communicating with them already? I’ve been having really intense experiences for the last several weeks. I can’t hear him, but I can feel him. I know it’s him, but at the same time I can’t help but wonder if it’s all in my head. Any thoughts? Thank you for your time 🙂

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  48. Wynter says:

    I was searching for what I have been going through. I believe I have found my twin flame. She is my best friend and we talk everyday. My question to you and maybe to others is that do twin flames always have a sexual connection to each other. I’m married with kids to someone else but I have true emotional connection to this woman. I’m not sure if it is mutual. She says that I’m her best friend and we have known each other for years but I wasn’t sure if all twin flames involve sexual relations with one another. I imagine it would be incredible but I don’t believe she feels the same physical bond as I do. We think and read each other’s minds and emotions but that is about it. Wanted to know your thoughts about the physical part of a twin flame bond. Love your blog. Thank you in advance for any response.

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