Regardless of whether we intend to or not, we are continuously sharing our energy with others. Since twin flames share the same one soul resonance and vibrate at the same frequency, their energetic flow makes them telepathic and emphatic with each other and enables them to intuitively know what the other is feeling, desiring or thinking. When we listen to our twin flame talk this is often with a sense of wonder as they seem to be able to read our mind, often taking even our most intimate thoughts straight out of our mind and saying them out loud using our own words. It is because of this telepathic bond that a twin flame pair will often find themselves texting, calling or emailing each other at the exact same moment, finishing each other’s sentences, speaking the same words simultaneously etc.
This is however only the beginning of the telepathic and psychic abilities between the twins. Telepathy in fact is an expression of the wider energetic resonance, oneness and binding together of the twins which naturally deepens and strengthens as their love for each other grows. It is often said that twin flames connect mind to mind, heart to heart and soul to soul – and this is certainly true from a telepathic viewpoint. True telepathy engages our whole being; the mind, heart, body and soul; requiring not only the mind to translate the flow of energy into a language which can be understood by the recipient, but also for the heart chakra to act as a transmitter of all the emotional and mental information. Telepathy is also received through the crown chakra, which connects us to our higher self, universal consciousness and the divine realms.
When twin flames connect energetically, the intense feelings of love spiral out of the magnetic vortex of the heart chakra and create a gateway of telepathic communication between the two. More than any other part of the energetic body, the heart is the essential thinking, feeling and knowing centre of a multi-dimensional being, generating a powerful electrical field 60 times greater and a magnetic field 5,000 times greater than that of the brain. It is therefore through the opening of our heart and crown chakras, often as result of our spiritual awakening, that we are able to fully tune into the telepathic connection with our twin flame.
Telepathy grows as love grows
The telepathic connection between the twins intensifies and becomes more fluent once their energetic bodies merge and they start ascending. Ascension purifies the heart, thus creating the possibility for sincere, honest and vulnerable communication between the two. This merging is where the twins exchange decoding codes to each other’s souls, and it is this which brings about specific spiritual abilities, such as sensing each other’s thoughts telepathically and each other’s energy naturally, even when physically apart. However the twins’ ability to transmit telepathically may not be equal, since it is the twin who is working on him/herself spiritually that will have the stronger ability to do so.
Being able to access each other’s soul transmissions, to an extent, allows us to read our twin’s mind as if it was ours. I have on several occasions been able to experience this, and it really felt like our two minds were one with very little difference between his thoughts and mine. The way in which a thought would pop into my head and he would act upon it or react to it as if it was his own felt very natural and right; without hesitation or questions asked. If for example the thought of being thirsty crossed my mind then without a word he would get up and bring me a glass of water. On another occasion, my twin lost his keys but before he even started to look for them, as soon as the thought of the keys missing crossed his mind, it crossed mine too and I automatically knew where they were. Even though I hadn’t seen him leave them anywhere somehow I “remembered”, perhaps through our shared mind, where they were.
Since the connection works outside of the normal boundaries of time and space, whether the twins are physically together or apart is irrelevant. It is when we have no way of confirming our telepathic experiences with our twin that we often wonder whether they’re actually consciously communicating with us or feeling us – or whether the communication is one-sided. The explanation here is complex to the extent that the communication is being passed back and forth between two multidimensional beings. For example, we may be able to perceive our twin thinking about us, and on the other hand receive loving, encouraging messages from them. One could be coming from their conscious mind, while the other is from their soul/higher self, which remains in touch and in love with us at all times.
This can be very confusing, yet as both twins begin to awaken and grow spiritually, they naturally align with their higher selves and the divine will. There is no way that a twin evolving spiritually would not at some point become internally aware of their twin and the mutual communication between the two hearts. Furthermore, as the twins surrender they learn to rely on this communication as a comforting, loving energy filled with spiritual nourishment always available to them and they begin to intuitively understand its slight nuances.
The importance of awakening our heart
At times during the twin flame connection we find ourselves confused, frustrated and hurt by the inconsistency of communication from our twin. While internally we feel their unconditional love for us, externally they may be acting cold and aloof. Perhaps our twin flame who once treated us like nothing else mattered in the world suddenly tells us they want nothing more to do with us, yet the energy and love emanating from their heart hasn’t changed. The thing to know about telepathy between twin flames is that while words can easily deceive us, the energy received through the heart chakra does not and cannot lie.
The Biblical fable of the Tower of Babel tells the story of how God put an end to the “one language”, thought to have been telepathy, and how this led to misunderstanding and deception among the humans since they were no longer able to communicate from the heart. This has very much been the state of humanity these past centuries; however with the awakening of the heart-centered consciousness, people everywhere are tapping into the ability to lovingly and honestly communicate regardless of all cultural, religious, linguistic and ethical barriers.
Twin flames are at the forefront of the heart awakening, since it is their divine mission to anchor the heart-centered consciousness and divine love onto the Earth plane. The language of the heart requires no translation, decoding or interpretation and therefore we are able to energetically tell whether our twin is being genuine and authentic in the words they speak. Our heart also tells us when we are not being true to ourselves and as our heart centre activates, it becomes harder and harder not to align with the infinite love that we are.
My twin flame often commented on how he felt like I could see into his soul and how he could not hide anything from me. It is simply impossible to hide anything from our twin flame, and when our twin’s words and thoughts don’t match, we can perceive this. One day as I lovingly confronted my twin about the inconsistency in the way he yearned for a deeper love yet chose to remain in a co-dependent relationship, I could actually HEAR his thoughts as if they were being spoken out loud. We were in the same room, and he was acting extremely nervous and I could hear him repeating to himself “I’ve done my soul searching, I know what I want” all over again, like a mantra of self-denial. I didn’t even realise at first that he wasn’t speaking the words out loud since it sounded the same to me, however when I called him up on it I could feel just how exposed and vulnerable he felt.
It takes a lot of guts and courage to look our twin in the eye when we have unresolved emotions and feelings and this is also one of the reasons we run from our twin; ironically, to attempt to hide away from the one whom we cannot hide from. It can be truly terrifying to have our feelings revealed when we are not even ready to admit them to ourselves, but the truth is, they are already being felt and known, whether we like it or not.
The ways in which we connect
There are many ways in which twin flames share telepathically and project themselves on each other. Generally speaking, when our twin reaches out to us, we recognise them by the unique energy that they convey. We may feel a quickening of our heart, and sense their presence/essence or smell their fragrance. Sometimes we are able to actually feel them touch us, usually by feeling a gentle caress on our hair, cheek, lips, hand etc. We are able to feel their warmth embrace us. Sometimes this happens at the most inconvenient time –in this case, its OK to send our twin away if the timing is off or if we simply cannot handle their energy at that time. Our twin’s soul loves us unconditionally and won’t mind!
Twin flames also often share the same dreams and communicate telepathically in the dream state and it is not unusual for the twins to have had reoccurring dreams of one another prior to meeting. Equally many twins, such as I, have developed a psychic connection with their twin flame before meeting them physically and have been aware of the other on some level since their earliest childhood.
Furthermore, the lives and daily events of the twin flames are often filled with synchronicities and unusual parallels. Whatever passes through one mind also passes through the other, in one way or another, and so the twins often find themselves reading the same books, sharing interests, liking the same music etc. These parallels often happen without any traditional knowledge of what the other is doing and can be as simple as one twin suddenly receiving the inspiration to cook many elaborate dishes only to find that the other was doing just that during that same time. As an example, when my twin immersed himself in his new job for a Japanese company, I signed up to study Japanese at University, and when he attempted to adopt a child, I instantaneously became an advocate for adoption – something I had never been involved with in the past!
We also know that we are picking up on our twin when we feel overwhelming emotions and feelings which seem to come out of nowhere. We might burst out crying for no apparent reason, or feel intense anger or happiness, etc. It is important to get to know ourselves so that when these emotions hit us, we are able to simply recognise them as coming from our twin – and let them go lovingly.
Personally, one of the most mind-blowing experiences of twin flame telepathy is without a doubt being able to talk to our twin in our head – and to be heard. For example, one day as I was getting ready to leave my twin’s flat, I looked back at him and in my mind said “See you later alligator “. Instantly he replied out loud “In a while crocodile”.
Sometimes twin flames share lengthy conversations which seem to happen entirely in the mind. This “mind chatter” can be a maddening experience since it can last hours and be quite relentless. Sometimes these “confessionals” go on so late into the night that we cannot help but fall asleep regardless, only to be woken up by the chatter in the middle of the night! The times where I have experienced this most intensely have been after my Kundalini awakening and after our mutual surrender. The conversations are very much like the intense face to face conversations that we would have had at the time if we had seen each other and involved planning next steps, and explaining recent internal growth and insights to the other, as well as mutual reassurance and expressions of love.
Naturally, telepathy is just as strong when the awakened twins are face to face, and their physical presence provides an excellent opportunity to validate their experiences. After my Kundalini awakening I found that I could literally touch my twin with my mind. The day I discovered this I was stood all the way across the room from my twin, and he was sat down at his desk, with his back to me. A thought crossed my mind: I wanted to run my fingers through his hair and kiss his neck softly with my lips. It was just a passing thought, yet in the same instant that it appeared in my mind, my twin jumped up; putting his hand on his neck. He asked me if I had touched him, even though he could see that I was too far away for that. I said “No, but I thought about it”. He said he had felt something, like fingers, running through his hair. I smiled: “That was me.”
What if I am no longer with my twin?
When we experience a merger with our twin flame it is indispensable to keep our hearts open and our thoughts upbeat. Whether our twin knows it or not and whether they believe in twin flames or telepathy or anything else for that matter, they will be deeply affected as they will experience the same thoughts, emotions and feelings as we do. Twin flames are always in continuous loving communication through their shared heart space; however when this is done consciously both twins reap the benefits. Sending love to our twin helps them wherever they are – it heals and uplifts them. Being able to remain connected like this is a divine blessing and a gift which enables the twins to assist each other’s soul growth by giving love, guidance, encouragement, strength, as well as emotional and spiritual support.
Initially, it is not easy to live with the connection once we are no longer in a “relationship” with our twin since we continue to feel each other and reflect each other’s mental, physical, emotional or spiritual states regardless. This shared vibrational frequency can certainly make us feel claustrophobic, especially when our twin suffers from mental, emotional or physical instability. We may be feeling the effects of our twin’s drinking, smoking, promiscuity, drug taking, emotional lows and much more – and it may take us years to understand this. Often we remain in this vibrational frequency out of choice; taking on our twin’s pain as if it was ours. We do this because we are, at least subconsciously, afraid that if we let go of our twin we will no longer feel them at all.
It is however only through detachment, surrender to God and connecting with our higher Self by increasing our own vibration that we are really able to perceive the benefits and endless possibilities of this connection – without the pain. Our ascension into a higher vibrational frequency will also help uplift our twin since the twins continue to be magnetised to each other. It is a divine law that what was once whole must return to wholeness – and the strongest pull is always towards the light!
Embracing our Soul
The depth of the telepathic connection with my twin has been a source of joy, wonder and also sometimes playful suspicion between me and my twin, since he has on more than one occasion reckoned that I’ve put some kind of a spell on him! Regardless of how the telepathy and its various expressions work or whether we believe this to be the work of our twin, God or the devil, feeling each other across the distance is an ESSENTIAL part in the process of becoming whole for twin flames. The reunion with the external twin can never happen without the discovery of the “twin within”, which is the complimentary energy of our twin which forms part of who we are. As long as we deny, block, undermine or doubt the truth of the energy of our twin INSIDE OUR OWN HEART, we will never be able to discover our own wholeness within.
It is therefore essential for every twin flame coupling to work on opening the conscious flow of love from the heart, since it is the energy field of the heart which connects us to our twin and others. It is only once we allow the telepathic flow of this Love into our lives through the exchange of unconditional love between us and our twin that we are able to align ourselves with the divine will and create balance within, thus radiating it outwardly through our light, awareness and well-being. Embracing our twin is embracing our own Soul – and life itself.
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I was searching for what I have been going through. I believe I have found my twin flame. She is my best friend and we talk everyday. My question to you and maybe to others is that do twin flames always have a sexual connection to each other. I’m married with kids to someone else but I have true emotional connection to this woman. I’m not sure if it is mutual. She says that I’m her best friend and we have known each other for years but I wasn’t sure if all twin flames involve sexual relations with one another. I imagine it would be incredible but I don’t believe she feels the same physical bond as I do. We think and read each other’s minds and emotions but that is about it. Wanted to know your thoughts about the physical part of a twin flame bond. Love your blog. Thank you in advance for any response.
her or loose her in my life, but didn’t know why or how /why to say so and what if i was wrong and it was all in my head! its real. I’m now crying, and laughing and talking to my twin every day. she wakes me up early and i hear her when i need her most. Internally its been there all along i just didn’t know, i would respond to her with my gut as i call it, even when i didn’t know what she was talking about, my intuition is her and she knows my every next move before it happens to me. I’ve been attracted to her for a long time, its so strong i want to act on it. I met my twin 3 years ago and we are friends, i should tell her shes been a best friend to me and i don’t think i ever have. She’s offered me guidance and support to whenever i needed it in all aspects of life. My twin had known about me for a long time, had found me once and let me go but kept our story safe for all of these years, I remember the day she knew who i was in person, and ran like shed seen a ghost. My twin has parts of me and i have parts of her. I feel at home when I’m with her and now that ive realized it i need her to know this more than anything. Our story is so long. She is my friend, she is married. She let my story unfold without interference but did everything in her power to protect the future that lies ahead and i am so relieved all at once that she has had so much patience and did not shake it off. Im ready to be with her, this love came back to me and i cant left it pass me by but i don’t want to hurt her in the process or anyone else. I know she wants it too, and she will move with me. thank you for sharing your Poem. all signs point to yes for me. i need her to pull me in . K
Following y previous messages, after cleaning up my closet, the next step was a step closer to my subconscious , aka my feelings. Guess what came up first! Oh, yes.. him! All the memories but most of all feelings, very deep feelings about how much I am missing him being around, how much I miss talking with him, how much I care for him to be well and how I seek for someone like him… Weird.
I then realised that this is my subconscious and that my Ego is terrifying me, because the whole thing is weird, so I feel afraid and want to run away, and feel guilty for having all those feelings, and completely useless for not being able to get rid of that after 6 years. I guess this is a progress. But what is the next step I should take, and where is this going?
Hi I am divorced and in love with married guy. Long distance. Never meet before. But we have very good understanding. High maturity.
Dont mistaken me….. i am love with his soul…. i am divorced bec my ex do not want baby. I want to have baby with this guy through test tube baby. Not sharing bed with him.
Baby is my dream… A good baby , a good soul will form when both the soul connected.
What should i do for it? Kindly guide. Tq
Dear Magiey, thank you for taking the time to comment and apologies for the delayed response. I completely understand you wanting a baby with this man who calls to your soul; however there are many reasons why this may not be the wisest – or even a feasible – thing to do at this moment in time. Like you said, you are separated by long distance and he is also married. How does he feel about having a baby with you? He would have to be consenting…
Most likely, if you want a baby, you will need to make it happen, either alone or with another man. Or maybe even with this man you love – but you still need to MAKE it happen. After all, the likelihood of an immaculate conception is pretty low nowadays, lol 🙂
While there is a lot to be said about “special” souls being born out of these wonderful connections, I personally believe that those of us who choose to have children receive exactly the child that we are meant to receive – twin flame conceived or not.
Lots of love Jonna x
This has happened a few times already to me and my TF. The first time, I posted a quote on Facebook and he commented with a very similar one, laughing about the synchronicity. Turns out we were reading at the same time that morning. We type the same sentences on FB chat too. One night just as I was falling asleep, I heard him call my name and I woke up with a jolt. Yesterday, I did a TF guided meditation and as I was laying there, I felt hands on my hands. They were his, although he has never done that to me. I also saw him and his dog in front of me and smelled his cologne.
In the guided meditation, he gave me a gift of a golden key and I gave him a red heart crystal. There are reasons that he is working on, as to why we can’t be in a romantic/intimate relationship. but the key was telling me that he knows my unconditional love will help him unlock his heart. That is very very beautiful. I look forward to more psychic connections as our friendship grows!
Ohh wow i see. Can you tell me what the current status of your relationship. Did you got him now. I would like to hear your answer.
No, but I have to stay strong. He returned to UK and we have seen each other around 4 times since June 2nd. He needs distance from me so I have let him go.
this is the strangest thing that has ever happened to me, in the romantic sector of my life. sometimes I think ive really lost my mind! I met this man last year, and at the time, I jumped in with both feet. I really had the feeling that he did too. we have not seen each other or spoken in many months, for various reasons. I have been in long term relationships before of course, but NEVER has it taken me this long to get over someone. at this point I’m not so sure I will ever get over him. I have spent time pondering what “it” is, and although I don’t have all the answers, I have realized that right from the beginning, I knew him. I saw so much in him that words could not describe. there are things about him that remind me of my children and also my father…like I see my children and father in him. there was such a familiarity about him. I feel today that “I” am also in him, that he is somewhat a reflection of me. I feel it, but I cant pinpoint it. I have tried desperately to move on, get past it, but I struggle. sometimes I feel as though he is trying to communicate with me. most recently I have been seeing the number 11 constantly, which ironically is also in his phone number. I recall at times him looking at me, no words, we just “knew” each others thoughts. ive been summing up my dreams in which he often appears, to be nothing more than my recurrent waking thoughts of him. at the risk of sounding absurd, before I fell asleep the other night, I mentally asked him to reveal himself in my dreams, and of course he did. in every one of these dreams, I feel him loving me. I remember many details of these dreams: it was night, and someone close to me was lost. it was in a familiar neighborhood. my ex was there. I told him “ok, you go that way, and i’ll search the other way. at the end of the search, my ex revealed to me that he never let me out of his sight, even though I asked him to go a separate way. in another dream, he came up beside, and placed a gift on the counter where I was shopping. I was totally surprised. another dream in which my ex was very ill. the doctor came to see him, and told him to go, take care of himself, and get plenty of rest. when I discussed this with him, he said he heard the doc’s orders but he didn’t care how sick he was, he wasn’t going anywhere, staying with me. he is always there in my dreams. I have also experienced what I could loosely describe as butterflies, but its more than that. its almost like anxiety, like a “rush” he could be the furthest thing from my mind, then all of a sudden I get this “feeling”, this rush, like he is thinking of me. please help me figure this out. ive never had to deal with this kind of thing before. I truly feel I am going mad!
Hey Crazylady LOL I will accept the fact you may be crazy, but not around these issues!!!! Everything you are feeling, I have or am feeling and sensing also!!! It just seems to be the way of the Twin Flame Soul communication. For me, as soon as my body accepted the energy as mine and/or OURs, the intensity shifted and now the actually sensations can shift from intense to nothing…but the connections are still working strong ..just my body has stopped fighting it as a foreign object !!!! The more you read in here the more you will understand. In faith and belief, K
K, thank you for responding…I’m still learning. there is so much that ive yet to understand. but all of my searching for answers have always led me back to this very subject. this is the only man ive never really cried over…usually its cry, take time, move on. but this one, its like he’s never really left, ive not felt that sense of finality…it just…..he just stays with me in dreams, thoughts…and because I saw so much in him…grr…how to put this in words….so much of myself’ in him, im learning to love “inward” does that even make sense? there are times I want so badly to reach out to him/bite the bullet, but I am so afraid….afraid of rejection, afraid of what he might think, afraid of losing him….breaking the connection. I HAVE contacted him, but not directly, and I also believe he lurks online around me. he was on a different path than I was….anyone ive tried to talk to about him have seen it as black and white…he did this, he did that, get away from him….but we all have our issues, and ive always found it difficult to judge him…how do I forgive him? the fear ,,,,id like to overcome, as well as somehow “letting it all go” and trusting the love to remain. I often tell myself I’m obsessed, although ive NEVER felt or thought this way about ANYONE. a big part of me just cant shake that he is “here””, and despite what happened between us in the physical world, that we are not together…he is always here loving me..i try to convince myself the dreams, the “rushes”/feelings , and “11”s are all coincidences, and if I just let it go and have a good cry it will be different. but I keep getting the same message “I have never left, I am always here, im not going anywhere” I see his face, I hear him, I get “vibes”. I have also looked a bit into empaths, and I could most likely believe I feel what he goes through, and get down about it. I have not fully looked into it though, still trying to tell myself to fight it. there is no one I have met that understands this. if I try to touch on it with anyone close to me, they look at me funny lol then of course the crazy’ lady resurfaces…..what is my first step? there is so much to learn, to understand…
I am by no means an expert. There are many in here that have done more of a critical thinking journey than I have but there seems to be recurring themes. CRAZY seems to be one of them. The intensity of this experience with seemingly no right direction and NO way out does leave one feeling CRAZY. The first step for me was BELIEVING. Believing in my body and sensations. This really was/is happening and I was/am feeling these things and I was not CRAZY or making them up. There is a religious and metaphysical way of looking at all of this (read this blog) It is important to find containers that give this whirling magical energy some kind of form because for me I only had the old (I think the language is 2 or 3 dimensional) way of containing it..meaning … You meet someone you fall in love you get married and have babies and and and and!!!!! HELLO!!! He and I are both older and married and he has kids sooooooooooooooooooooooo WTF?!?!?!?!?!? It has taken me all of this time to understand…time is irrelevant…when you are looking at eternity. Silly simplistic human ways of defining relationships and people are also irrelevant when faced with god things. This part of my journey takes everything I think I know and turned much of it on end. ALL of this has required I take everything that has been spilled out and open my heart head and soul to brand new and seemingly impossible ways of being. So how this plays out for you will be unique to your situation however it always seems to require faith (in something, god, yourself, your Twin ) and trust that where this path is taking ya is somewhere worth going. Love comes in so many forms..I KNOW that now…and to judge (I am very judgemental) which is right or wrong or better than…is useless because LOVE in all FORMS is more than a blessing. I now KNOW however having him or THIS or THAT in ANY and ALL forms is just pure magic and more beautiful than I ever known beauty to be!!!! Sooooo.I am trying to put my old 2 or 3 dimensional ways of being aside (at least where he and I are concerned) and am currently mixing up a new way of being for ME that includes him and me and the life right in front of my face because ALL of it is important and ALL of it is MINE In faith and belief, K
TY I bounce on and off of this blog because of the intensity of energy I find here. Today I was brought back and have found exactly what I needed. Because I have now accepted that he and I could not endure the (soul) damage of us meeting on a physical plan (both married, he with a young child) I have finally begun to shift that energy from him and US to me and US..I feel a huge difference in that. I love him without beginning or end I love what we are together I am beginning to understand the missing link in this is ME and my love for self. I am finally understanding why we are both married and living on different sides of the planet…this is NOT a mistake. Interestingly enough as this movement of focus begins to happen, my life begins to open back to core issues and I am being given an opportunity to view things with a more open heart and soul . Forgiveness is such a wonderful loving gift and as I have been experiencing forgiveness, understanding and love for my twin…it seems now finally it is happening in many facets of my life. I was unaware this was part of the job description of Twin’s and the sharing of these beautiful openings is my gift to this wounded world..beginning with my very wounded family and my very very wounded self. I have always felt blessed for being given the opportunity to connect with my TF , but now I see how this is beginning to flow inward and not just outward. TY to all who dare to continue this journey and who have the courage to share their souls. In faith and belief, K
I was proved wrong, my story is not a TF story. I had an auric cleansing the other day and it was proved I had a piece of his aura into mine. I am going through an apocalypse, discovering parts of myself I ‘ve lost and wanting to connect with then (if that makes sense). I don’t know what else to say, I was wrong, but I still I can;t understand the purpose of all that! It is crazy anyway!
the 11’s are still with me, and hes still in my dreams. I feel his presence on social media, so I finally bit the bullet and posted an anonymous message…just threw it out into the internet universe. I addressed it with contents/words only he would know. then I went to bed. I woke up in the morning, and saw a one word email under a different name than his,. I keep telling myself its just a stranger that replied mistakenly. I wrote back asking him to identify himself, no reply yet. later in the day I came across another anonymous posting, still trying to convince myself its not him. but the words in this posting were straight from my own heart, and the person who wrote it insinuated that this letter couldn’t be seen by just anyone….that some connections cannot be broken. I was floored. if it IS him….he is playing it the same way I am, anonymously. do I need stronger medication? lol
From the moment I met my twin soul, I knew how profound the connection. I had never experienced a connection of such magnitude. Every sign I experienced. I told my girlfriends I finally met someone who has my soul. Twin flame or twin soul didn’t cross my mind but as i Said all the signs were apparent. When everything was finally coming to fruition that particular weekend he got sick so did I. By the next weekend he was hospitalized with pneumonia and 48 hrs. later he went into cardiac arrest. It’s been a month since he died and I cannot even convey the depth of my sadness. I feel as if my heart has been wretched from my body. I couldn’t stop questioning his significance and stumbled upon twin flame information. When I did I picked up my phone and it read 11:11. There have been signs he has given me since he passed but I still want to connect as if he were hear. I am so heart broken. Finally meeting him and having him ripped away from me. This has been the most devastating time in my entire life. Is there telepathy after one twin ascends?
I have recently been awaken, with visions and voices, I know it may sound crazy. I think back, and I remember a lot of times I felt feeling I could not understand, but then simply dismissed them. A girl I met a little more than nine years ago, has been in and out of my life since I had met her. We were instantly drawn together when we first met, and dated for a little bit. We were very young, and our lifestyles got in our way. In the times apart, I had a child with someone else, and the same for her. We also separated from those people because the relationships did not work after all. It has been four years since I became single, and three different times we gotten together and it felt like it should always have been. She have always have run away from me eventually in those occasions, and I was always left heart broken. Whenever we are together, I can feel her energy, we finish each others sentences, and we know what each other is feeling. This last time, we’ve been seeing each other for two months now, and this time it is different. During this time I have spent with her, I began to have these visions, and instructions. I sought help, and I found out, with a little help from a friend, I have this ability the whole time. They explained that it might have been awaken when I got close to this girl in recent time because she is my twin flame. I began to meditate, pray, and research all I can, and I have felt her energy get stronger everyday. In fact, there are times I feel like she drains some energy from me, but I welcome it, and I am no where near her. Our bond is getting stronger, but she is a “runner”, and many times still denies the feelings. They will surface, and she gets very affectionate, but then she shuts it off. I know she struggles with the pass at times, and have gotten hurt by people who she thought were sincere. What type of practice can I do to strengthen our bond? Whenever I sense her, I begin to speak with her, hoping she can hear me, is there any kind advice you can tell me?
Hey marespar I’m not sure if there is anything you can do? The bond is there and from what I gather it will always be there. Cleansing aura’s and unblocking chakras especially the heart chakra I think is a good thing my twin and I have never even been on a date or physically spoke in our personal lives its always been through work and or me running into him in random places which for the longest time had me scratching my head. Knowing what I now know about twin flames I have tried my hardest to avoid him and its odd cuz ive picked up on him even more but I think if it were me and if after 8yrs I would have to show my twin an article about twins and gently discuss this. I don’t feel @ this point in time for my life I could explain this 2 him due 2 the fact he’d probably think I’m bat shit crazy however when I told him about 6months ago that I smell him when he’s not around he stood there outside of my car in the rain and smiled. I thought holy shit he SMELLS ME 2. This was before I had learned about tf so I was still tripping really really hard over it all. I asked him if he believed me and he said yes baby and I asked him do u think I’m crazy and he said yes baby but not for that reason. I think if I were you I would show her an article or text her a link and keep your spirituality strong but who am I marespar? I’m crazy lady 2…..c
Hey crazy lady I AM A CRAZY LADY TOO!! I also see the 11’s I recently discovered twin flames although I’ve known for the past 2 yrs there was something special and crazy about this man, from the moment we met I felt as if we used to play in the dirt when we were small and we are both over 40. I have smelt my twin on many occasions and he is never around I have felt him and his emotions. I have dreamt of him and the dreams come true. This has been a maddening experience. He has hugged me and I felt de ja vu. I have woke up crying for no good reason only to run into him looking a sad mess. I have even spoke with a psychiatrist. Luckily my best friend is psychic or I would probably be in a mental ward, the synchronicity and telepathy is extreme and I could go on for hours trust in God even though @ times it feels as if it is the devil himself that’s cursed you. Its very scary but its miraculous. My suggestion is to cleanse. I cleanse my aura regularly as well as his. I work and pray on my chakras as well as his and this was also validation of our telepathy because the morning after I did this for the 1st time he looked calm quiet peaceful smiling. Its a blessing if you can trust in it. It is also sad sometimes lots of times I just cry I can feel his pain as if it were my own. You are not CRAZY. Believe that. Thoughts and prayers for you
K, you raise a very good point, and it helps, when you talk about putting it into a container…one that fits/makes sense. “I must be crazy” otherwise I would just be like everyone else: “meet a man, fall in love, get married” etc etc…but that’s sooooo not the way this works. Ive learned to remain silent which is also very frustrating, cant quite explain this one to the girl friends! As soon as we met, I knew it was different, and I always had the feeling this would cause transformation. I felt like he came in like a bulldozer, and it took some time to see everything…about myself. Wow, difficult to articulate. I felt he was like a messenger…unknowingly. Maybe I was to him also ….months ago I dreamed that he was trying to get up, or go/walk, and a couple of his friends were warning him not to. He was angry, very powerful. When I woke up I felt tired, like I was fighting him too, or I was him?. Lately though, a couple of times I wake from sleep and something about him rushes to my head before im even awake, or his name. awhile ago I asked again the universe? Angels? To tell me why? Why why why? Why is he always here? I dreamed that night that he was nowhere, long gone, nobody knew where he was. They all told me, kinda sad for me, hes not here, I don’t know where he is, hes long gone. In my dream I felt sad, I had waited for him. Ok, so this is good right? Hes gone, I can move on…no dreams or major things, 11’s stopped…..smiles. 3 days later…hes back lol dreams, 11’s, thoughts…im doing something completely unrelated and its like hes standing there smiling all of a sudden, like this feeling that comes over me. And yes CRAZYLADY2 lol it DOES feel like a curse. Is it possible that he HAS done this? Put a curse on me? I mean, im already out of my mind so that’s not really a stretch is it? !!!! I know he believes in that kind of thing, so do I. I would like to think that my being down for so long is because of a situation im going through, I usually have more of a positive outlook…..and not because I am feeling what he does. Coincidence. Its scary because its unknown to me. I have had to face so much since ive met him. And fear is one thing ive been working on. I wish to just click my heels and wake up tomorrow, and everythings back to normal. Or learn to live with it. I will look into cleansing, as im pro at research these days lol thank you for the advice, shared knowledge, suggestions and ideas…its all so very helpful K and CRAZYLADY2 !!!
Hey crazy lady I understand it’s painful it’s sad I had a dream about my twin smoking cigarettes. Chainsmoking. I had never seen or smelt him smoking ever and in fact @ the time I was the general manager of a business that primarily sold cigarettes and he was one of my delivery guys. In my dream he looked awful I repeatedly asked why why r u smoking. He never answered as I woke up I was covered in tears the pain and depression was almost unbearable I couldn’t talk or even get out of bed. I ran into him 2 weeks later. Awful isn’t the word he looked miserable. As I hugged him I smelt cigarettes I wanted 2 yell snap out of it go home shower shave comb your hair change your filthy clothes which I am sassy with him like that but something in me just hugged him and told him I miss you very much. Hes hurting too. Hes confused too and even if we never connect physically, our love is spiritual and that is a true gift from God. I am blessed. It hurts tremendously. The pain @ times is excruciating. But his smell his heartache I can actually feel telepathically ensures and inspires he is a gift from God. I Love him and pray for him daily. Not to fix his pain for me but to fix his pain for himself. My love for him is authentic although @ times I feel I could choke the shit outta him. I always try and put the shoe on the other foot. I know if I’m going through it , it has to be mad confusing to him. I am intuned and in touch with my spirituality and understand way more than probably he does so with that being said if I am super confused my God my poor lost man MUST BE TRIPPING
To original crazy lady…
I too am feeling the EXACT same thing with a man I met a year and a half ago. The one presence, the energy, the dreams, telepathy, ,,all of it.
I actually want it to go away. I can’t take the pain anymore. The bad part is, I’m happily married with 3 children. This experience has blind sided me.
The overall I feel for this man is that of a brother, mother, lover all rolled into one. It truly is insane & no one understands.
I guess I’m crazylady3! Lol
welcome to the crazyladyclub Dreamingagain aka CL3 HA! why do you want it to stop? besides the obvious….I too wanted it to stop because of the longing, the void in my heart, the wanting to fix it, to reach out…make it better….be with him. but now I realize what greater gift is there to feel loved? to know that someone out there loves you unconditionally, without the daily jargon of life…the ups and downs, the uncertainties, etc….in the dreams, the telepathy, the “vibes”, in all of it….all I feel from him is love. as crazy as it sounds, unable to fit it into a “normal” category/box….it is there, it is just there. the other night I dreamt about him. he did something really nice for me. the details are a bit blurry, but I think he made me breakfast and bought me flowers. what I do remember clearly is him saying “its ok baby”, and I remember the feelings I had…complete contentment, joy…and love. Recently,as I was drifting off to sleep…and heres where doubting your sanity REALLY comes in lol…he started talking to me. I could see his face, his goofy smile, irritating as always (spoken out of love of course) he was just rambling about nothing in particular, but I was giggling, kinda shaking my head, smiling. again, I felt the love. when I was with him I was afraid to lose him. after he left my life physically, I wanted rid of him mentally….doesn’t make sense. in all of the secret conversations, all of the dreams, the 11s…the message is consistent “I will never lose him, he will always be with me” and that is what im slowly learning to accept, crazy or not. there is not a more beautiful feeling than knowing you are loved, and falling asleep, dreaming, and receiving messages are things I welcome now. I don’t try to fight it anymore. at times it seems that things are getting back to normal” no dreams for awhile, no signs, but then it starts all over again. my phone lights up when its 3:11, 1:01, etc, but now I just tell him out loud that I love him when I see the numbers. when I hear him talking to me, I engage in the conversation, I don’t try to think of something else like I used to to get rid of him…it would be “crazier” of me to want to get rid of such amazing feelings. isn’t that what everyone wants? to be loved unconditionally? maybe the experience is not normal by society’s standards, but the feelings are real….and I know for a fact the love is genuine, regardless of what is said face to face. although I have not seen him in MANY months, the feeling does not change…..crazy or not, it is a gift that ive learned to cherish
Crazy lady I LOVE YOUR POSTS!!! Thanks for lifting me up when ego brings me down. Beautiful I freaking love it!! 💙💜💚 our thought patterns are all so similar. Its weird….. Its the shit we cant tell our girlfriends or we do and they say get over it already!! Lol!! Ty! 😇
all crazy ladies unite! lol well…I have more to share. aside from the dreams, vibes, secret conversations and constant 11’s….some time back, last winter, I was really missing him, thinking about him, and wondering seriously about marriage. in trying to get “over” him I put myself out there a bit in the dating world. I distinctly remember a man I spoke with a few times on the phone, he shared the same name as my ex…lets say “Joe” we were laughing about something and Joe says “marry me” right out of the blue, jokingly….but, the same name….then recently ive had business to take care of. the man im doing business with…his name is also Joe. tonight I was out, and this younger man came over to me, real polite and just started talking to me. I was fascinated by him, he had so much to share, but in all of his endeavors that he shared with me, one thing that really stood out about him was his confidence, and his belief in himself. when I got home, I checked online everything he told me…it was all true….very talented artist. you’ll never guess what his name was…yep, Joe, I felt this big grin on my face all night, and I was just shaking my head…weird. so I’m getting ready for bed, its getting a bit late and im tired. I set my alarm, which I rarely do, and I turned up the volume on my phone. my phone is always off unless im expecting a call. just settling in, I get a text…hmmmmm…..and guess who it’s from? Joe himself….8 months later….I had to look at the number a couple times, I couldn’t believe it.. he was asking me to get a hold of him, so I did. WOW! everything I have been feeling, everything id been thinking, thinking im crazy, thinking he doesn’t even know my name anymore, then the acceptance of the craziness lol then the BELIEF that it was really true, it HAD TO BE….because why else would I feel these vibes, dream the dreams, not be able to shake him? I accepted it, embraced it, and now i look forward to it…..and tonight just blew my mind. talking to him was complete validation. he had no reason to contact me, but he did, and I don’t care the reason, because I know its all true…..I have no words to describe what im feeling, but I CAN say….I’m a believer
Beautiful! I’m sooooo happy 4 u!!! Keep smiling!! Keep ur positive energy and keep the faith!! I’m pulling for your CRAZY ASS!! 😘 thanx 4 sharing! O n btw I just looked @ the time. Its 2:22 😇
crazy lady 2…YOU ROCK! I could be wrong (no sarcasm intended) but I’m thinking there is a whole lot of love on these pages, I can feel it. you cant get rid of me now lol please keep sharing, we are the right path. and thank you for your support xxoo
Hey crazy lady I think YOU rock harder after u saying y would u wanna lose the feeling or something close to that it just reiterated what I thought. This is a gift. Maybe I needed to hear someone else validate that. What a beautiful gift it truly is. Man today was off the hook EVERY TIME I felt him I just returned my energy with a Ty for thinking of me… Thanx again for inspiring and reiterating!! Hope ur energy is still flowing with peace love and hope 💜
Hey crazy lady something happened tonight and it sooooo made me think of you. Its totally like wtf?!?! My email address is firstname.lastname@example.org. i REALLY wanna share 😇😘
Haha. Thanks for the crazy lady posts. They made my day 😉
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Crazy Ladies Unite! Loving the posts so much xx
I’m so glad I found this blog! This twin-soul journey can be very lonely! I would welcome feedback from whoever wants to respond. My question is..how do we know if our longing, or pull, to communicate with our twin is THEM waiting for us to reach out, or if it’s just me missing him? When I met my twin, it was unmistakable and very unexpected. My soul began to dance and sing “it’s you, it’s you!”. It was like a tsunami! I began working for him a month later and it was such a roller coaster! Feeling such a strong connection with my boss, plus we are both married, was so confusing. Sometimes he could read my mind, and I could sence his energy, good or bad. After three months of this he fired me just when our magnetic attraction was becoming obvious to both of us. He was also furious with me, but would not tell me why. It’s been months since then and I am at a loss as to what to do next……..
Hello. How do you differentiate between your feelings and thoughts and those that belong to your twin? How do you know who is who.
When I was with my twin flame I would just know and I would go to him and say I am feeling like this and I know it isn’t me so what is going on or I just had this thought and I know it wasn’t from me so… and already there is this connection so he would know right away what I was talking about and in turn I would know right away when he got it and knew exactly what I was talking about and then we would have a conversation about the thought or emotion and that would solve that. Now we have separated but the feeling is still the same. Just a knowing that this thought or feeling is not from me, but from him. I will also have dreams or visions of him about where he is in his life that will verify the thought or feeling that I knew was not my own. But basically it is just this feeling, a knowing that this thought or feeling is theirs not yours.
Good ? Ramal…… I was torn up in my twins depression. I woke up depressed I saw him in my dream depressed. I saw him smoking and I had never seen him smoke nor smelt it on him. I was so sad after the dream. It took me weeks 2 shake it. It was so confusing I had nothing to be sad about. Yes I missed him but this was pain that I couldn’t fathom. After I ran in to him n I hugged him and I could smell the cigarettes and see the depression on his face I knew…. This is him NOT me and this was actually before I had learned of TF. It was very confusing and still is but I was lucky enough to have him validate it without “validating” it.
I believe I met my twin about a year ago but I didn’t realise it at the time. She pursued me since thru emails and tried to visit me but we missed each other as I was sick and disoriented. I am in constant pain so frequently exhausted.
Next I lived with her about 6 months later in separate rooms while looking for somewhere to live. For a month we talked and laughed. It was wonderful. I could feel and see her love energy. It was pulsating light, orange yellow. We fell in love but I was so overwhelmed by her and the energy connection, I found it hard to speak. I was afraid at first, and still so disoriented and sick with very low energy.
In the end, I barely slept for six weeks while in her house and my whole being pulsates with love, as well as sexual fire. We have not had any physical contact other than a few hugs but sexual energy simmered always between us. And the love emanating from her was undeniable. It left me reeling and dumbstruck.
She became very angry with me. She was very damaged by her past and needed to recite off her entire past, all her grievances and hurts but I didn’t have the energy. I also felt I couldn’t bear her pain. I would need to hold her in my arms while listening but she wouldn’t let me touch her. I tried to explain this but she didn’t believe me, or found my reason unacceptable and asked me to move out.
I haven’t seen her since. I’m deliberately giving her space but I have felt her energy a few times. There is no mistaking her unique presence and her love.
I meditate everyday and send her love in the hope she will stop being angry with me and seek me out. I cry often and wake frequently in the night with her on my mind.
it seems like space is the only way to go unfortunately. i really don’t think there is any guarantee of reconciliation with people once you “break up” or part ways. I think it can and often does happen, so that should be the glimmer of hope that keeps you moving forward and let that light guide you every day, but let it show you the beauty in the world. and feel that unconditional love for this person and keep in mind that everybody is someone’s “twin flame” or soul mate. And they would be very thankful that you showed their soul-mate compassion in your brief meeting with them. I think that is the LESSON that these connections can show us (Among many more personal ones). but the general lesson for humanity is to love one another, so remember that this feeling you feel is inside of you and you have been given the great gift of getting to see it and feel it, where many people are so blocked off that they cannot fully embrace what you see clear as day. I think the turbulent soul-mate connection is proof that people are drawn together to unlock the love in each other. sometimes we are fortunate and we meet the right person at the right time, but i actually think there are more ‘wrong’ times to meet someone on their spiritual journey, particularly if you’re young and are meeting people earlier on their path to self fulfillment. it’s rocky terrain. so just be forgiving of her and continue to love her, and live your life one day at a time and do what feels right. and if loving her forever feels right, then that’s what you get to do. and no one can take that away from you.
Mar I am curious… Have u always seen auras or just hers?
I know this question was for Mar but thought I would answer. I saw my twinflame aura when I met him. I have never seen auras before. His was a white light around his head. When I see him, it is often hard to see his physical body I am just connected to that white light that comes off him and my heart responds back with this light that fills my heart with love. When I think of him long-distance now the same thing happens, white light directly to the heart, heart opening even when I try to close my heart off and love overflowing. Then I try to think of him in his physical appearance to ground myself and to lessen the impact of that feeling because we are not together.
Over a decade later I went to a new dentist and he had white light around his head. I was asked many times what he looked like and I could not describe him because all I remembered seeing was this white light. I went back a few times and it took me about 4 visits with him and me concentrating really hard so that I could go back to my family and tell them what he looked like. I got a sense of him just him being a really amazingly nice human being.
I would like to know if ANYONE in history has ever really gotten together with their twin flame?
I mean – i read so much and it seems no one ever does – which would make sense bc it is so hard yet so rewarding and takes so much self work – to be of YOUR OWN SELF LOVE – that i would imagine it to be a rare thing – most ppl rly dont love themselves- but i guess i am a bit tired of seeing how people just break apart and never come back together – i suppose if its for the best then fine – but if not – then wow – this is your twin flame – wouldnt you go through any pain to be with this person? And i know im kind of contradicting myself because i know the only way for that to happen is to totally heal your own self to where you are WHOLE and dont NEED them – but WANT them from a healthy place. i feel that on my side but yes it hurts she is with someone else at the moment but i feel so strong like never before in life ! – i believe it will work out – if i didnt believe i would not be strong –
i think Trust is huge – learning to TRUST YOURSELF and be TRUE to YOU – you have a choice – there will be MANY distractions and lovers and possibilities in life – but WHAT DO YOU WANT? make a f’ing decision hahah and the whole universe will come to you – is what i believe – its empowering and healing – and i believe we should not give up on the twin flame at all man ! – anyway – hope someone replies – loved reading all the comments – good to know others out there but gotta keep going ! good things come to those who keep on keeping on and sacrifice. the more on this path i walk the more i learn and become self loving – if you arent on that route then its not surprising if the twin doesnt come back into view. Anyway – im a lil frustrated lol – but taking it lightly – i was runner for so long and it pained her i could feel it – but after 1.5 years only now feel a true LASTING permanent sense of self love – it took a TON of work – She is engaged – i know if she marries it will make things harder on the outside – but i realize SOUL and GOD – SPIRIT universe behind all this illusory world is working and ANYTHING can happen anytime – ANYthing can break away – All we have to do is keep on trying so to all you out there who read this – DO NOT GIVE UP – BUT REMEMBER – there is an UNHEALTHY and a HEALTHY way to want someone – this is the twin flame – this is extremes – prepare yourself for TRUTH – truth most ppl cannot ever want bc they want the easy relationships… boring.
I read your post @ 1:11 😋
Hi Bryan..haha Loved your post! Don’t underestimate boring! Sometimes after you have walked through fire all you want is a cool, soothing and well you can call it boring place to land. I got together with my twin flame and we were together for years! I was not perfect but I made a CHOICE to show up every day and treat the relationship with care and love despite my imperfections and fears. I would not worry about being “perfect” or “whole”. I believe that too much emphasis is placed on this when talking about twin flames and I believe that it just means that the more you know yourself, the more you are open about who you are and the more comfortable you are in your own skin the better chance the twin flame relationship have of succeeding. Twin flames will love each other whether they are perfect or imperfect. We just like to tweak each other so that we become the best selves that we came here to be. Once twin flames relax and just let the sunlight in and face all the strangeness and extraordinary phenomena’s of the twin flame relationship with a grin there are no problems. If the twin flames resist embracing this relationship on any level then true pain will begin for both. Being “perfect” or “whole” is not what will determine if the twin flames will stay together or not. Showing up every day(NO RUNNING) and knowing that this is like the holy grail of all relationships and should be darn well treated as such and leaving your ego at the door; this will. Learning, growing and bettering yourself is admirable and is a never-ending process and should never stop inside or outside a twin flame relationship.
I agree that life is based upon choices. And the choices twin flame makes about their relationship starts right when they meet each other and those choices will decide if you stay together or not. Do they want to make the choice to choose each other to be together in this life and stay with each other or don’t they. The runner stage is a choice for whatever reason someone made in the relationship to separate/end the relationship in 3D. Twin flamers know that if they showed up imperfect or not then the relationship would never end. Twin flame relationships is outside the realm of human experience and because we have not been taught enough about this extraordinary connection and because we have not the tools, experience and understanding to handle the emotions and phenomenon of what we would call the extraordinary we usually crash and burn.
In this crashing and burning stage you learn many things including where to find place like mirror of my soul and talk to others even if they name themselves “crazylady” one, two and original.:-) One of the things that I have learnt is that I have to work at healing myself and I will have to because you will need to be healed in order to continue and succeed at the true purpose of why you are here on this earth. We are destined for greatness twin flamers and meeting and keeping your twin flame or meeting and losing your twin flame is just the beginning.
When my grandmother passed away I could smell her, this happened on 3 different occasion’s, startled me @ 1st but I accepted it as her saying hello. My twin n I have both been runners/ chasers. Everytime I run something extremely profound happens. At 1st it was smelling him and then I could physically feel him and Ive dreamt of him I decided almost 2 months ago to avoid him totally. It has been more pain than I’ve ever felt. I’m so scared to tell him that I think he’s my twin (besides im sure hed b like wtf is a twin)but when I told him I smelt him. He smiled. I believe he is my twin. The last thing that happened to me was I found his initials on my skin. I am like u. I cry ALOT. sometimes I just don’t know y? And sometimes I know its him. I think u are right. Back off let her clear her head fix what needs fixing. Sometimes I feel I need 2 tell my twin exactly what I am going through. I am the more spiritually intuned so I think I get it more than he. That’s what leaves me wondering damn what is he going through but if I tell him about me does he freak out 2 the point that he never wants to see me again? Its so difficult but I think I’m with u, let them go…..
I met what I think is my twinflame 17 years ago. I just found out about twinflames last year because I really became confused and suspicious and thought there must be an explanation for us,and all the strange never-ending happenings. This is not normal I thought to myself, there must be an explanation so I started to search and I came across the twinflame explanation. When we first met we were together for several years. There was a lot of separation and coming together we could not stay away from each other long. But each time we came together I felt we had no choice but to come back to each other. I did not like this feeling. It had to be him and no-one else. I loved him, but I felt you should have a choice to choose who you are with and not feel this overwhelming pressure, that this was predetermined and that the world was going to come to an end if we were not together or that we could not function properly without each other. When we were together, we were happy, the love just seems to grow and grow year after year. We had telepathic communication, I could feel his emotions, my psychic ability increased, we saw angels around us, really bizarre especially at our young age. After I found out about twinflames I realized that I was the one with psychic and healing abilities which he was able to notice right away because the word and abilities of a psychic were mainstream and easy to understand. What he was capable of was not so mainstream I think and it was confusing and scary for him so he did not talk about it. Him I think his mind is an open doorway to the spirit world and it hurt him a lot.. I would not know what you would call that ability but this would be the best way I can explain it. We broke up suddenly after several years and I ran and never went back. He chased me for a decade. During this time I could feel his agony that we were apart and I felt like I was dying. I was away from him but I could feel him all the time. I started to get physically ill in every way and I knew that I needed to go back but I couldn’t. I kept feeling guided back but I resisted. I was too hurt over the reason for our breakup and I could not get past it event though I still loved him. I had faith in him and us, I looked up to him, I believed in him we connected so well that the heartbreak when it came just almost killed me. He asked for forgiveness regularly for a decade but I was too hurt. The hurt and pain just took over my life and I could not understand why I could not just get over it already. I resisted and continued to get ill every year. It felt like we were connected and the farther I went from him I felt like that cord was being pulled too tightly and pulling on my insides and could not take the distance and I felt I could not breathe most of my days. I found out He also got very ill. Finally after a decade we bumped into each other. I ran again and that is when he gave up. The hurt was too much for both of us and he was able to break our connection in a fit of rage.. When he was breaking this connection he telegraphed his rage and anger and disappointment at me, I felt like he was beside me physically beating my heart with his fist. When this happen I thought I was about to die. Feeling his anger towards me I hope never to experience that again. I think I had a breakdown for a couple of weeks. There was this big empty space and I could not feel him anymore, nowhere inside me he was gone after 19 years. During these weeks I dreamt him many times and in one of the dreams I ask him why and he said because it hurts too much. One night I was going to bed and I was holding my heart. My heart felt heavy and I thought I was going to have a heart attack from the pain in my chest. I really did not think I would make it through the night. I felt like we were separating and someone was literally tearing my insides out. I went to bed and that night I dreamt, but to me it felt like I was awake and I felt a tug at my heart and opened my eyes to see that this strange thing with wings had taken something from my heart and started to fly upward with it. Something must have told him I was awake, I think he thought I was sleeping because he looked startled as he turned back to look down at me and saw me staring up at him. He stopped and we looked at each other without saying anything and then he continued to fly upward. I couldn’t see what he took from my heart. But the next day I woke up, my heart was a lot lighter not as heavy. I later tried to find on the internet what I saw in my dream. I think it was Cupid….a very round months old baby cupid with wings. The twinflame …He has a girlfriend now. I don’t feel him as I did before but I still feel him but in a different way I feel his presence sometimes more like a ghost I can physically feel his presence next to me, sometimes I am doing something and I feel he appears and actually sees what I am doing. The other day I was reading something that I thought could be emotionally and spiritually helpful to me and all of a sudden I feel his presence and felt that what I was reading also helped him. I feel this sexual pull towards him a lot. While I was running for a decade I did not feel this pull towards him. I just felt a lot of suffering and fear. All of a sudden I am feeling this intense sexual pull towards him and I am having these images of us together not from the past but in real-time. I try to pull back and I try to block him from showing up because I do not want a connection with someone who has a life with someone else and that I feel so sad and hurt about all that has occurred. So I try to block those images and him and that is painful to do. He is not a good twinflame. And I am not good with giving people second chances so I am not the best twinflame material either. Shouldn’t someone have figured this out before twinflaming us up? I hope he is not my twinflame but a weirdflame and a twinflame is out there where the relationship is more calm and smooth, where we meet each other when we have figured out all our issues and not before.
I can’t contain it any more. I am so in love with my TF. I don’t know if we will ever be together in this lifetime, but I want him to know how special he is to me. I love him so much.
I love this love bursting out of its seams within your heart ❤️❤️ Does he know you feel this Way? I remember feeling like this too.. And I had to tell him: I could not waste another second thinking that he might be thinking I didn’t love him – or completely unaware of it.. Maybe there was a more balanced way to let him know, I don’t know, but i do feel like it’s never the wrong time to tell someone you love them. I hope you did, in the most balanced and loving way possible. 💜 love you lots, thanks for sharing on here. Xx
What if you and your twin are both married? Should you still tell them? And if they are not spiritually awake? What then? I want so badly to tell him, but I have no idea how to even bring it up.
Dear Jonna, How do you know if all that is happening is true. I receive signs all of the time and I am a be y rating nap person. I often doubt my connection to my TF because he has his challenges, including pursuing other women. He has never expressed his feelings for me. In the end, refuse to be a doormat, which means standing up for myself and setting boundaries. But then I continue to have dreams, visions, and signs that he is the one. It is so confusing. I always felt that I was placed on this earth to fulfill a higher mission. When I was younger, I felt as though I did not belong in this world. And I know I am an old soul. I feel it in my bones. This whole experience is disorienting. Any feedback is much appreciated.
True north, just letting you know you are not alone in your struggles. I often question if all this is real too. All I am sure of is my love for, and unbreakable connection to, my twin and the excruciating pain of being away from him. Hoping for answers and clarity for all suffering twins soon!
Edit to my post “I am a rational person”
My twinflame misses me today. He misses me a lot and is hurting today and I am not sure why. It is hurting my heart and taking away what little energy I have. I am trying to open my heart and send him love to help him but I have been feeling so tired lately that I don’t think I have the energy to do a good job at it. I think that part of the reason that I have been feeling tired is that I have been blocking him mentally and emotionally because I do not want to feel more pain from this and he has been doing a very good job of blocking me also until today.
I’ve been meditating A LOT. I stumbled upon an article about the violet flame.I first started with myself after a week or so I put my twin in the flame with me. Signs and synchronicities started coming at me left and right. Everything in my life prior was shit Bad luck after bad luck and missing him was the worst. weeks after this meditation everything started to change. Everything in my personal space started getting so much better and his energy felt more positive. We still aren’t present in each others life physically but I’m not so sad anymore. When I smell him I smile when I feel his sexual energy I give mine back to him. Life has been so much more peaceful. I still miss and I guess I always will but my faith in his reason is much stronger today. “They” say separation is a healing process for your own karma and growth I believe this today. I HIGHLY recommend anyone suffering in the separation phase to research meditating in the violet flame….. Peace love God bless
One of my favourite colours is violet. xox
I met my tf about a year ago, and every since then its like..i cant descibe it like some of you said you feel like youre going crazy, ive never connected with someone the way i have with him, there are times when i swear its like this man is reading my thoughts or simply tuning into them, when im feeling a certain way he always and i mean always texts me like “boy did u hear he jumping on ya case in my mind or what” lol..ive noticed every single time hes crossing my mind i see 11 or 11:11 its the weirdest most warming, most confusing thing i have ever experienced in my life, i just know i love this man and i never wanna be without him
Dear She Is Poetry!
Love your name! Thank you for our comment. Sounds like an amazing connection you have with this man. Hold onto the love that you feel and know that it is always there for you to connect with – with or without him.
The synchronicities, 11.11s, the telepathy, it’s all part of it: enjoy them; they truly bring magic to the mundane.
Unfortunately this path is not all roses and rainbows; as much as we love them – and they us. The journey to the self that the twin flame connection is always ends up kicking butt! Lol!
Anyway, I am grateful for all the twists and turns on this path. They have helped me become a better me; and to connect with the love within. There was only one person on this planet who could touch me (in all senses of the word) the way he did and no matter what, he will always have my unconditional love because of it. Stay blessed, with love and light.. Jonna
Thanks for replying jonna ☺☺ and yes im starting to see the obstacles as its like a tug a war with him sometimes, some days we are great and others its like two different universes lol, i know its due to our distances, may even the age as im 3yrs older, not much but still. Its even more so crazy as our birthdays are 3 days apart, its just i hope these clashes dont break the bond i feel with this man, how did it work out for your TF and yourself? Did you guys have the same push n pull effect, how did you two over come it?? Again thanks for responding ☺
Dear jonna I recently confronted my twin about his self love and thoughts of me. At 1st I thought I knew of this because I am highly intuitive but now I wonder if it’s because he’s my twin. I told him if he doesn’t want a relationship that he should stop thinking of me. He was completely embarrassed and red and smiling the whole time. I didn’t call him out to make him uncomfortable I just said if your not going to reach out PLEASE STOP thinking of me. The 1st weekend after the confrontation he did stop but then it started all over again. I wonder if I pick up on him because I’m intuitive or if it’s soley because he’s my twin. Hes the only person I pick up on like this even though I have had moments of clairvoyance, telepathy and I’m pretty sure I’m 100% empath. What are your thoughts if you have time….
Also I met him 2yrs ago and it’s been within the past year and a half that I pick up on him. I felt like I was lying or being fake not telling him but also it’s made me crazy even though I do feel and believe that it is the separation phase. My intention was not to shame him I love him way too much to do that but I am curious as to what you think…
The hardest part about all of this is living two lives — one based in ego and one tied to the soul. I just spoke with my TF and was not able to reveal to him my true feelings nor my authentic self.
I won’t lie but this whole experience has been an emotional roller coaster for me. I know somewhere out there I have a TF (next life?). I have undergone too much of a spiritual transformation to think otherwise. I see signs everywhere.
JKG I am curious when u say your authentic self and feelings…. I show my feelings and my authentic self to my tf. I do not tell him I believe he is my twin because I don’t want to scare him. Its just been over the past few months that I’ve discovered what tf are even though I have felt our connection from day 1. See even as intuitive and spiritual as I am when I learned of the tf it freaked me out so I don’t wanna do that to him even though I did finally tell him that I smell him when he is not around. Anyhow back to the point. I’ve always hugged him tell him I miss him when I see him. I tell him to hurry up and get his shit together so we can go on a date etc etc. Its like my pride and ego went out the window when I met him. I’ve always shown him I’m interested and/or care. Ego says U LOOK THIRSTY NEEDY CLINGY etc etc. I ignore that and I try not to go overboard but I’m sure I have sometimes and again back to the point when I have made myself vulnerable I always get big smiles from him and energy goes up. When ego comes in between that’s when it feel uugh and shit lets face it i work hard on my aura and chakras. I cleanse meditate and miss him like no tomorrow if I’m gonna work work work then yes absolutely Hes gonna know I’m on his team. You should definitely throw ego out the window n come forward AT LEAST once. I think u will b pleasantly surprised. I don’t Chase my tf I think in a way I used to but then again I’d also avoid him like the plague but when I avoided him that’s when it got profound that’s when I saw signs that were soooo crazy I had to accept them as beautiful gifts from God my angels and spirit 💜 God bless goooood luck
Dear crazy lady 2, I appreciate your message but I will remain silent for now, My TF has a burning desire to be with other people, which affects me deeply. It is better i undertake my journey on my own at the moment.
Hey folks…. I wrote a few comments about my recent journey through the confusion in finding a twin soul/soul mate connection while in a marriage… I had been very patient and really truly feel that I maintained clarity through all that has unfolded. LAst I wrote, I had grown very close with this incredible person that had entered my life surrounded by synchronicities. I had been happily married with four children, but coincidentally/divine timing, this soul connection reached out to me and I felt safe to confide in her some of my deepest thoughts, and stresses that I had been shouldering. Our marriage came to a crux several times, unrelated to meeting this new person, just the burdens of finances, challenges of parenting four children, and managing two businesses. I’ve always been the rock for my wife, but my stress that I hid for her built to a point where I was not sure I could go on much longer.. Compiled with her also feeling the same, led to me burrying everything deeper from her. I began to confide and connect with my soul connection, which gave me a huge sense of hope, reinspiration, guidance, and a chance to reflect on who I really am and the bigger picture.. This allowed me to question whether I was truly happy in our marriage… As winter progressed, my wife began to really thrive once again, shine, inspired, full of purpose and strength. I did not want to disrupt this great flow for her, so I still contained all my turmoil. I had resolved to trying to stick through it all, appreciate my soul connection as a great true friend, and not bring the epicness of what I felt for her into her reality.. Well that inevitably was impossible.. Our connection grew and grew, and I feel that true, unconditional love was felt both ways… I felt a desperation, because I was so entrenched in a full on marriage with children… saw no way for me to explore that connection any further, so again I resolved to keeping it in and being patient, allowing universe to unfold… Well, after she was gone for a few months, she returned and almost immediately I found myself opening up fully to her.. Even though things were going great with my wife, we were on a roll, thriving and lots to look forward to, seeing my soul connection just brought it all to the surface.. I poured my heart out, had an incredible night by the fire talking till five in the morning….. Well, the next morning my wife was balling… She sensed the connection and assumed the worst had occured… I reassured her that we had just connected deeply, had a lot to share, and were very good friends… I allowed myself to be vulnerable and revealed the truth, that we had confided in eachother, and trusted eachother.. I tamed down the epic love/soul connection angle, but made it clear that when I had nowhere to turn, I felt safe with her…. So after only a short period of being put through the ringer, my wife and I emmerged stronger that ever… Our connection strengthened, and me being left in awe at her unconditional love towards me, and even though I betrayed her trust, shook our foundation, we can still move through anything… Two months has passed and things are going great, lots of forward momentum and the freedom to share our stresses, communicate more clearly…. I can see us having a long bright future, and accomplish much together, especially for our kids and communtiy…. Simultaneously, I still have such a strong urge to communicate with my soul connection.. Out of respect for my what my wife and I have to face, we have ceased communication…. So many times I have wanted to write a letter or see her, but have restrained, trusting that if she truly understands me, she will only respect me more for following through with my commitment. I feel that our connection supercedes the need to be together, but I do still hold onto that vision of epic love that I glimpsed as a possibility with her… At this point, I again have to be patient, allow universe to do its thing, and trust that all will unfold as it should. My actions only seem to disrupt that flow…. All I ever did was speak my truth with integrity, but I did end up hurting the two people I love most in my life…. I just hope that we can all be friends still, that my wife trusts me enough that we can all share our experience as friends….. Thanks for listening….
Matthew, thank you for sharing your story. It could not have come at a better time for me. Our struggles are so similar. I’ve been married for almost 20 years, and met my twin flame love last September. When our eyes locked for the first time, my soul literally began singing “it’s you, it’s you! ” and leaped out of me to hug his soul, and has remained connected ever since. I too am torn between my marriage and wanting to be with him. He is also married, so the universe has some work to do if we are ever to be together. I have not been brave enough to tell my twin what I feel for him or what I experienced upon meeting him, but he told me it feels like I see right through him so I think he might have some idea. Right now I can go see him at his job, but now work will be taking him away from here- just far enough away so that I can’t go see him when I feel him pulling me to him. I know we are always connected, but there is NOHING like being in his presence. Meanwhile, I try to hide this from my husband, but I know he feels me pulling away. My relationship with him is nowhere near the intensity I feel for my twin. I just feel emptiness, but I’m not in a financial position to leave and be on my own. How does a person let go of their twin??? Why does the universe entice and taunt us with the sudden earth shattering awareness and love for our twin if we are already committed to another? What is the point of this cruelty? Yes, I know I need to work on my own self and my mission, whatever that is. But seriously, I’ve never felt such joy and pain at the same time. Feel like I’m loosing my mind! Again, thanks for sharing, and listening.
P.s. Funny coincidence that tells me I was supposed to read your post, my love lives in a town called Matthews.
This has definitelyBeen one of the most intense and challenging experiences in my life… The timing and coincedence of meeting my soul connection while deep in the experience of raising four kids with my wife that i’ve never had any waivering with for 13 years… The most challengin winter we’ve ever had combined with the experience of connecting with another true love.. When it all came to surface, i could have let it all crumble down, but instead i chose to work on my marriage.. Its paid off, its better than ever, but i still think of my soul connection many times everyday… I hold a strong trust that she knows i am trying to do the right thin for everyone involved and still respects me through it all… The silence i must maintain with her is so challenging.. I want to appologize, to see. How she is doing in all of this, and to communicate that my wife and i are doing well… I just have to trust that she knows all this and that our connection will always temain strong… I hope one day to at least be able to be friends and deep down i feel that it will be inevitable that we connect on even deeper levels… I just have to be patient and trust… My karma with my wife must play out… Our children come first and ivwould never want to add a divorce into their experience.. I would never want a relationship with my soul connection clouded with the complications/ baggage of a divorce… I dont know how or when, but i cannot help but see our experience together being innevitable… Perhaps we’ll be 80 taking care of eachother looking back on our full, seperate lives… I hope i dont have to be that patient…
I can relate! I was happily content to grow old with my husband. I wasn’t looking for something else, and always said that if it didn’t work out with him, I would never even want another relationship.this is a second marriage for both of us. I don’t want to hurt my husband with cheating or divorce, but at the same time, I can’t imagine not speaking or at least messaging my soul connection every few weeks. All children belonging to all three of us are grown, so at least we don’t have that complication. I guess him having a wife makes up for that, though. When I first met my love, I did get an overwhelming intuition that he is my inevitable future. However we are in our 50s. So, like you, I hope I don’t have to wait too long either!
Thanks for your emails Crazylady 2 (aka staceyK). Hope your boo boo from Father’s Day is better.
Guuuuurl please YOU KNOW my boo boo needs a 💋
My journey has been one that had taken me by surprise. Sort of 🙂 I have always believed in soulmates, and anything mystical, really , since I was a young girl. At least 16 or so years ago, I had begun to really notice all the synchronicities and connections in my life , and was intrigued on what it all meant.
In 2002, I was starting my 2nd year in massage therapy college, and it was there I feel certain I met my TF ; I had just turned 27 , he was 25. I was not looking for a romantic relationship; focus was on my education and my future career in healthcare. Something about him was drawing me to him , and I was the one to say hello first. Almost right away, I had a crush on him and the more time that we spent together, whether it was just us, or with others around ; I knew that this was different somehow, but not really knowing why.
He was not looking to be dating \ romantic relationship either – his focus was school and making new friends ( he had moved from across the country to attend this college) Lots going on in our respective classes\ studies etc ; and still it seems like we were always together. We became fast friends & there was always an undertone of physical attraction between us and when it was just us spending time together – we would talk for hours and about anything, and I felt that this connection was deeper , on all levels.
There were many people in his circles ( his work friends ) who would comment that is was like we were a couple; he would say we were “just friends”
. It was a confusing time because he would be giving me mixed signals about being more than friends ( his comments and actions) and yet when we were alone – there were looks which passed between us , that showed so much more to me.
There was one time , sitting watching a movie , that we looked across the room at each other , right into each others’ eyes and I swear that time stopped for at least a minute. ( from the look on his face, I think it did for him too) I did not confirm that with him though.
He called me his best friend , and when ever something happened to him, like an injury – he wanted to be near me, he could show me his vulnerability . And whenever we hugged – to me – he felt like home ; there were a few times that he actually held me closer and did not want to let go 🙂 We would say ” love you ” to each other (mostly in the context as friends)
Halfway through my 2nd year , my dad passed away ; and when I came back to school -my TF would ditch his own classes to be with me, even when I told him I was ok to be by myself. He was my rock.
Sometime in the 3 years of school – he came into one of my classes (before it started) , said to the teacher he had an announcement. In front of my whole class , he is praising me and calling me his best friend etc (made me blush , and the girls cheered !)
* We are still in touch , all these years later, will get to that part 🙂 *
There were a few times , that we spent together, we got very intimate without anything sexual happening. He always stopped it before it got any further, saying he did not want to ruin our friendship . It happened to him before with someone else, taking to the next level and it hurt him deeply. He told me that he was glad that something happened between us , and he said ‘ I love you ‘ to me . He told me that ” its not you , but it is you ”
I always had a lot of patience with him , with his indecisions with a lot of different things (like choosing a movie to watch 🙂
I wanted more , and not sure what he wanted and there came a time that I moved forward with my life and moved away to be with a boyfriend , now my husband.
TF was happy for me and we stayed in touch ; I would come back for visits , and there was lots of times that he could not look me in the eyes , even though our visits were good; still being able to talk about anything. Every visit – I still had that same drawing to him and the hugs – still home to me.
One of the times I was planning a visit (in 2012), we were in touch online and he commented about the time he ‘made the announcement before my class and proceeded to tell me he loves me. And that nothing had changed”
TF and my husband share the same birthday , though there is 11 years between them.
I am 2 years older than TF ; my husband 9 years older than me.
* Now – mid July 2016 – these past few months I have had a increase in this phase of my awakening ; though I know that it really started during my college years, something happened shortly after TF and I met – and I knew that I was different somehow, not able to explain why.
Until now, about 4 months ago, I recieved a message from an ex ( and a soulmate connection) who I think was a catalyst for this part of my awakening.
I was feeling some physical symptoms ( which upon some research – discovered that it was more than likely a Kundalini rising) , waves of energy\ and pain up and down my spine. I felt and saw an energetic presence in the room , it was male. And it was not my husband. It was HIM, my TF. and I could feel him join with me.
And it was either that same night, or a night or 2 before then , that I had asked my Angels \ Higher Self to show me, my TF face. And I had very clearly heard my TF name spoken aloud.
When I was in touch with the soulmate ex ; I had contacted TF to talk about some different things. Somewhere in that time frame , I had an anxiety attack , (I thought I was dying – never had one before) and called TF , had to call back again, left him a message, and basically poured my heart out to him.
Even though I had moved forward with my life ,and love my husband dearly ; I was convinced that I had gotten over TF and grateful for our time together ( even with all of the feelings from then)
Can you tell us when two twins are apart but they have merged and they sense each other.. and one of them is having sex with other people. What is the best way to react to avoid the physical pain (spleen,heart etc) and all the annoying sensations from the intercourse without severing cords? Can this connection be broken?
Hi Patty. I don’t know if there is a specific method for this in the TF literature, so I will let you know what works for me. This doesn’t just apply to when they are having sex but applies to blocking emotions that you might feel from them on a daily basis. I don’t think the cords can be severed because I have not experienced that but I know that the volume can be lowered, if not disappear only to appear once in a while. You need to distance yourself from your TF. This is my feeling so hard to explain but TF kinda share space inside but they don’t have to feel everything the other is doing. Think of it as always being in a room with your TF. You always know that that they are there, they always know that you are there, you are both doing activities, and walking around but there is no need to bump into each other as you walk around and do your activities and there is no need to communicate with each other as you go about doing your activities. There is enough space in this room for both life and activities without it impeding the other abilities for them to do their activity or complete their goal. You can know that he is in the room and still become so engrossed in your own activities you totally forget that he is there and you won’t be feeling or seeing what he is doing as much. To do this you will have to come back to you and your own activities. When I say come back to you, you are not tethered to you. Your spirit/essence is kinda floating around in that room and your shields are down so everything is coming in even the things that really aren’t suppose to. How are you suppose to concentrate on your activities and goals if you your spirit/essence is helplessly floating around in there. I think the gurus would say you are not grounded or not centered within yourself. You need to come back into yourself, center yourself. To do this imagine that you and your tf is connected by a cord. It is more than a cord because the connection goes from your throat to your pelvic area. Now imagine that the cord as and A end and a B end. Your tf is on his end B. You essence/aura/spirit is suppose to be at A but unfortunately you are not. Your physical body is still at A but your spirit, essence has decided to travel closer to your tf. Take a look at the cord and see where your essence is on the cord. When you see and recognize your essense/spirit gently pull it back until it clicks back into your physical body. To pull it back into your physical body gently see it and gently imagine pulling it back by pulling in your stomach/chest/pelvic area. This always works for me and it has been a lifesaver. You will notice a difference right away in your energy and your outlook in life. You will also notice that by being aware of this you will have more control about the emotions that comes through. Do this regularly just to center yourself and you will find that you will have a lot more control about what you see and hear and when. This room for two is not set up to cause you pain and it doesn’t have to.
No way to have sex and tf can’t feel you. I was having this crying sex with my husband which was kore like a punishment so in march I said NO to sex. Tried once more after about 4 months .. it doesn’t work. My tf is on my mind and my husband or any other guy – don’t want to make love to any other guy except tf. In 3D or 5D or 33D
I only love myself now. And it’s the best love without touching.
Can you please tell me what is mirroring when it comes to TF relationship.
Does this mean that when I, the chaser, feel sad or angry or lonely that he, the runner, feels the same way?
Also, are runners emotions more powerful than chasers in a sense that chaser is the one that can feel the runner’s emotions but runner cannont feel chasers emotions to mirror them?
Also, does this mean that if my runner is unhappy with his own life it is more likely that he is going to give in to me than if he would feel happy in his current life?
Does this mean that chasers should hope that runner is unhappy in order to get him?
If my runner is happy and feels happy and lives fulfilled life its is less likely he is going to thing of me and come back to me?
Hey Domain “they” say that twins do feel what the other feels and I know personally that I do feel what my tf feels and sometimes when Hes hot it happens in the most inappropriate time LIKE CHURCH ha ha but I don’t know if he truly feels my emotions I’ve never asked him. I don’t wanna scare him with the tf thing. Also I don’t think you should ever want your tf to be unhappy no matter what the circumstances. I know I would be sad if my tf found someone else it would probably be excruciatingly painful but I would never want him unhappy in fact I would much rather him live love and experience what he needs to in order to find peace and contentment because when he feels good I can feel that too and besides I wouldn’t want to be with him if he were unhappy. I want him laughing and smiling and happy. Hope this helps. 💙💜💚
Hi Domain1111. Not sure what mirroring means, but I know that tf can feel what you are feeling and if you are feeling sad, angry or lonely there is a high likelihood that he might feel the same way. No, the runner can and do feel the chasers emotions and the chaser can feel the runners emotions. I don’t think the runner emotions are more powerful, they are probably the same where the runners emotions is fear, and anxiety and feeling the need to run and separate where the chasers emotions is likely fear and anxiety and needing to get closer and not to separate. There is no guarantee the runner will come back if he is unhappy or happy. We cannot predict the future, we can just try to have faith that everything will work out as it should. It is always better for you emotionally to wish someone well instead of unhappiness. Wishing your tf unhappiness is literally wishing yourself a life of misery and pain, so don’t do it. When you find yourself wishing your tf unhappiness take an inventory and notice how much worse your emotions and life gets. You might as well be taking a hammer to your own life. It is not worth it. I know it can be difficult wishing tf happiness and if you are not there yet, try to focus your thoughts on yourself instead of him. That way you don’t have to wish him happiness or unhappiness you just focus on your own goals, or what makes you happy and let the universe takes care of the rest.
Thank you so much for answering me. I asked about relation between TF being happy and being away from us since Im still confuse about whole “dark night of the soul” and “soul shock” actual meanings.
The way I see TF runner cant go into dark night of the soul nor have a soul shock while he is happy and content with his own life. And they also say the only way for TF runner to come back is to realize what is going on going thru either soul shock or dark night of the soul.
I dont know if Im getting this right or at all :).
I dont want for my TF to be unhappy in any way but I also want him to come back, that is the reason I asked that 🙂
Hi Domain1111. I am confused about those too, but from what I understand just separating from your tf is enough to cause you both soul shock. I don’t think it has anything to do with how great or terrible your life is going, just the separation from someone who is so much a part of you is enough to cause this. Just from a runner perspectives, your tf cannot come back if you don’t let them go. Really, all they want is separation/distance and time to realize that they are free to choose and that given the choice they would choose all over again what is already theirs.
I never heard of a twin flame before a month ago. I’ve been agnostic for a long time. I’ve been married for a long time to a good woman. I stumbled on a connection to a woman about 7 months ago through an odd coincidence online and have learned that our lives have had parallel experiences throughout. Shockingly similar. Our birthdays are a day apart in the same year. I have experienced unconditional love with her and we have both healed and are healing from lifelong issues. Our symptoms of trauma stopped abruptly when we connected. Our behaviors changed for the better without the other knowing at the time. I’ve been getting insights and vivid mental pictures. I know where she is and what she’s wearing sometimes. I get feelings that roll through me that are not mine. I had a feeling of needing to cry roll through me and found out later that it was at that exact moment that she experienced something that made her want to cry. I know things about her life that I shouldn’t be able to. It just comes to me. This has been both a wonderful and a jarring experience. I haven’t believed that any of this is possible and sometimes I find myself doubting reality. Like I must be making this up, but the evidence is piling up all around me. At the same time it’s the most beautiful and profound connection I’ve ever had to another human being and I’ve never even met her in person. At times it’s ineffable. There is nothing other than healing and becoming whole and healed and complete in our connection. There is nothing other than honesty, care, respect, and a feeling of love I’ve never experienced in this connection. Reading your article made me feel better that other people have experienced this. I don’t know if I would have believed it if I haven’t experienced it. And I know, just know, that everything is going to be ok. I don’t anticipate a response, but I needed to get this out because I feel like I’m going a little crazy.
hey Dave….I just wanted to say You are NOT alone and YOU ARE NOT GOING CRAZY..yet!!!! I also was an atheist/agnostic. Connected through the internet …6 years now. Looking back the first years were in some ways the best years. When he and I could allow it to be as it is and before the ego took over and the ceaseless drive to make this all physical battered us and left us somewhat disillusioned. I am not sure if this is inevitable or just too incredibly strong willed individuals who probably would not be in relationship if not for THE connection all of us reading this material seem to have. Enjoy these days of exploration and sweetness. It is real Try not to worry too much about defining what you are experiencing in the “normal” ways of relationship..it just does not fit and I do not think it is suppose to. My “other” who he is and how he defines things..just can not allow US to be as WE are 😦 I pray that perhaps you and yours can. I know this connection seems to be defined in god ways and god terms but whatever this is…I feel so blessed and would not change anything for the world. Enjoy the ride… In faith and belief, K
Thank you K for reassuring me. I do feel a little crazy sometimes. I’m sorry that you haven’t been able to connect as you need. I think I do understand the profound need and it’s overwhelming to say the least. In the bit of reading I’ve done about twin flames I’ve found that we have a pattern of runner and chaser and I am the chaser, which is difficult at times forcing me to achieve a measure of peace within myself and take on my own issues. I don’t know how she does it, but she brings out in me a desire and an ability to confront what I’ve been afraid to and overcome it. We do that for each other, although I’ve found that she sets a pace that in the moment appears frustrating, but over time it becomes evident that it’s perfect. I take some solace in that as it gives us both time to uncover, learn about ourselves in a way we couldn’t before, and heal in a way we never thought possible. My overwhelming instinct is for her to be happy, whole, healed and complete. I think what we’re finding is that we have to start with ourselves and we’re doing the work on that now. This may not make sense, but after 8 hours on the phone (apparently time has no meaning when we’re together) I was able to feel the pain of the most traumatic experience of her life. It shot through me like lightning and this sounds impossible, but I feel like it rewired my nervous system. I was bereft for 45 minutes and the next day my body felt emptied. It ultimately ended up allowing the pain I had stored in me through my life to pass through me and out. If anyone is yearning for a twin flame I will warn them that things can happen that seem impossible and can be extremely jarring. Thank you for listening and I truly hope that you can find your peace. I have found that I need to have peace first, then answers come.
TY…I think you have a good handle on this. It has taken me a while to understand that even tho this man came to me…to teach me about love (as many have said to me before) I was confused…it was not about loving him (because I just do that naturally instinctively) but more about learning to love myself. He has helped crystallize my vision in ways no one else could. He has the the gift of intimacy without the baggage and that has allowed me to sense and feel and see things I was unable to with other relationships in my life. Altho the song remains the same LOL he sang it to me in a different language. TY, again for you concern and gentleness Many in here have thoughts and ideas about WHY this happens .. big picture things. As I have drifted and sifted over the pieces..it seems the small or big things that I just “overlooked” “ignored” with him are the exact things I overlook and condone with others I can see it with him and that is allowing me to make changes important ones based on self respect with loving self care… elements I have been fighting to grow and strengthen in my life for a long time. He just helped me kick into 8th gear LOL Wishing you peace and love within yourself and various other places !
In faith and belief, K
You mentioning small and big things made me think of an audiobook I recently finished. I have had a complicated upbringing to say it generously which had followed me throughout my life. A few years ago it nearly broke me. I took to meditation, martial arts, and listening to a ton of audiobooks to help pick up the pieces and figure out what happened. If a may, I’ll recommend a few that I found very helpful. I was thinking of the book “The Path” which talked about life not necessarily coming down singular large events, but rather an accumulation of small interactions and those are easier to deal with and do more good over the long run. The other is The Power of Vulnerability, which seems to be popular these days and I’m glad. It should be required reading/listening. The Untethered Soul is another good read/listen. Perhaps these may be useful. I’ll always recommend meditation and group exercise as well. You may be doing all these things, but it makes me happy if I can be of any help.
You mentioning small and big things made me think of an audiobook I recently finished. I have had a complicated upbringing to say it generously which had followed me throughout my life. A few years ago it nearly broke me. I took to meditation, martial arts, and listening to a ton of audiobooks to help pick up the pieces and figure out what happened. If a may, I’ll recommend a few that I found very helpful. I was thinking of the book “The Path” which talked about life not necessarily coming down singular large events, but rather an accumulation of small interactions and those are easier to deal with and do more good over the long run. The other is The Power of Vulnerability, which seems to be popular these days and I’m glad. It should be required reading/listening. The Untethered Soul is another good read/listen. Perhaps these may be useful. I’ll always recommend meditation and group exercise as well. You may be doing all these things, but it makes me happy if I can be of any help.
Last three days felt like a dream. Energy flowing throughout my body .. even for a moment I felt half of my body only and half of his body ..
Beautiful moment. It’s gets hard sometimes and sometimes easier .. I love when I cry and he shootes me with his calming love. I cry out anything what need to go out and out of breath I can feel his deep breathing to help me go through it.
He is my God .
I love you D Xxx
Miss you everyday more.
9 mths without you close.
After 10 years my TF and I have just accepted our unique closeness. We are finding out that we are more than just close. We share some very deep personality traites and are the same MBTI personality type. We have a similar experience of life as it unfolds and come together in a serious mix of geder roles reversal and play. Since accepting her love and her accepting mine we I have experienced a ramping up of my creative energy and have become much more sttled in my self and my life. We are both scared and excited by the differences in this relationship. We both know that whatever the outcome of ‘us’ we will always have that deep deep connection. Lovely to read that we are not alone and we are infact ALLONE! xxx
absolutely beautifully written, thank you so much. i’ve read a lot about the concept of twin flames since i met someone who soul-shocked me into action like NO ONE I have ever met. I have been in love several times (more if you’re willing to lower the standard a bit) but this person took it to a whole different level. Love at first meeting, unconditional ever since, massive unlocking of my creative energies, telepathy. I was feeling heart chakra telepathy before I even knew this was a well known avenue of connection between lovers. Unfortunately she is not as spiritually inclined as I am at this particular moment and I believe she has some major emotional blockages she needs to work through before she can handle ‘us’. And likewise, she has triggered an awareness in me of ways I can improve and become a more desirable partner and grow up in a physical, earth-bound sense. We have parted ways for now due to some major ego clashes between us, but it doesn’t feel like a normal break up. My love for her remains, despite some harsh words and actions from her that should have sent me the other direction. In fact, I have had more psychic dreams about her now that we’re apart than when we were together and speaking every day. This experience has completely awoken me to the realm of soul-connections and I now believe things I didn’t before. I am more psychic now with everyone because of this connection, and have, in good weather, been able to show others the unconditional love I’ve felt for her, but feeling that love and sharing it with others every day is something I need to work on. It’s part of my spiritual call to action that this connection represents for me: to help her raise her vibrational frequency, and also everyone around me. Good luck to everyone else on their journey, I love reading about others who have experienced this eye opening connection.
I need some guidance.
I am separated from my twin flame. He is an exact mirror. He is I in male form from our wounds, mother abandoning to illness to wants for future. I am very sensitive as is he I feel his emotions when there’s a disparity in truth blah blah. I once hurt him and I felt the true depth of that pain it was like nothing I’d ever felt before. In short I rejected him when he needed me and the spaces grew old pattern for me that I need to change.
Cut another long story short he is younger, used to smoke weed and stopped when we met and not been working on himself or spiritually as aware. This is just an overview. He couldn’t deal with the emotions and smoked again. We parted. I do not want to be with someone where the connection is not pure the weed stops the flow and causes a detachment I’m not interested in having. He wants a different life but the pull is there.
Anyway I have been watering my own garden so to speak, I’ve wonderful friends, learning to play guitar, painting, meditation, yoga, prayer etc. Sending him love and light. Letting go to allow him his growth and trusting if meant will be.
The issue is I am feeling everything he is. It has been three months it’s even more powerful. All in my heart chakra chest area. I’m pretty sure he’s in a depression. He thinks he kept hurting me and will. He goes into self pity etc i have respite when he’s smoking but even that’s changing now. I’ve cut the cord myself I’ve prayed I’ve been for healing they’ve cut the cord and protected me but does not last. I’ve talked to him and said he has to do and his growth I’ve tried welcoming. I just don’t know what to do it’s debilitating and is affecting my life. Ive never had this connection obviously and nor has he. I just wondered if you had any suggestions? Your posts are so wise and insightful. I love him and would like to be with him if that’s what is best for him and myself. I’m not in it all the time but definitely everyday especially when he goes to work. I’m tired and had enough really 😦
Also I have had no contact cleared all his belongings. When I say I spoke it was psychically.
I’ve been through such a journey with my twin flame. So much has happened in the past five months since our initial meeting. I haven’t shared this with anyone because I feel like no one would understand. It all started three years ago. I had a vivid and lucid dream. It was so real. I was flying above a blue pool of water seated on a big and beautiful ribbon. I was slowly lowered into the bottom left corner of the water. As I looked around I saw mother of pearl tinted rocks that with pearls inlayed. I realized I was in a mermaid kingdom. I saw two women mermaids that were beautiful. There were different paths that were made from the coral. As I was gently lowed down I looked around. Then, a merman locked eyes with me and came straight for me. His eyes were so intense. He was blond with beautiful piercing blue eyes. He came right up to me with no hesitation and swept me up. He then carried me straight out as the two mermaids looked at me with envy. The feeling I had was that he chose me and that I was now his. I felt loved, secure and cared for. The merman took me to a stable and wrapped my legs around him. There were no words spoken, only an intense stare that spoke volumes. He stared deep into my eyes and penetrated my slowly. I was overcome with daze of blissful intense love and pleasure. With his eyes, I felt like he was saying, “you’re mine.” I woke up from that dream and wanted my merman. His energy was so real I felt he had to be real.
Fast forward to five months ago. I was presenting research at a conference in Hawaii (I’m a master behavioral scientist). I had a free day after I was finished with my sessions and had a strong desire to surf. I never had surfed before but always wanted to. I booked a single ticket with the concierge and it just so happened that the surf school they partnered with had an availability. There I was taking selphies in the back and all of a sudden, it hear, “wooo hooo! yah!” It startled me and I scurried back in the surf shop without even looking at who was hooting and hollering. It wasn’t until I was instructed and out in the water that I noticed the surf instructor with the group that was beside me. It was him. The man who startled me. He had his shades off and looked at me. I thought to myself, “oh wow, he’s cute!” I then drifted to his group and he took me out to catch my first wave. He asked me what I was doing out in Maui and if I was in the group. I told him I was there for conference and that I had a free day. He asked me my field and I told him international business. He said me too and it peaked my interest. He then asked how long I was in town and I told him just for the day and that I was leaving in a few hours. He asked if I needed a ride. Knowing that ubers were running at about $100 I said, “why yes, yes I do actually.” The session ended and we exchanged numbers. As soon he got off he was on his way to me.
He placed my things in the back of his truck and I hopped in. The chemistry was electrifying. I felt free and engaged like never before. I felt like I knew him from somewhere. We talked for hours and I didn’t want the night to end. He had me laughing from the bottom of my soul. It was craziest thing. By the end of the night we were walking hand in hand and were so in tune with one another’s energy. The subtle nuances were like a beautiful dance we were having together. My body would react without my conscious knowing. We were so perfectly in tune and this was on the very first night of us knowing each other. Something in me told me to fully indulge. It told me to enjoy myself to the fullest and to allow my desires to take control. We began drinking and his sexiness level peaked. We stopped at a beach to watch the sunset and I watched the movement of his physique as he walked in front of me. While we were at the beach someone randomly came up to us and gave us sprinklers. He lit them and I remember smiling to myself and saying, “great, as if we needed anymore signs. Now we literally have fireworks in our hands.” As we walked back to the truck he leaned in for a kiss but I was hesitant. I moved and blushed.
Then, we went to another bar. The entire ride I remember talking each others ears off. At this next bar, I couldn’t take it anymore. When I came back from the bathroom, I walked right upto him and kissed him. It was so natural and amazing that it felt like I’ve kissed him before. We sat and had drinks as we asked year other 21 questions. The entire night was full of mesmerizing moments and intense feelings of warmth and positivity. I wasn’t expecting anything but to get a ride to the airport. We ended up going for sushi and finally made our way to the airport. We kissed goodbye and shared one last hug. When I got to the gate I saw that my flight had been delayed. At that very moment he called and I let him know. He said, “I’ll be right there.” I said, “This is crazy, i’ll meet you at the baggage claim.” lol I remember smiling all the way until I reached the warm night’s breeze. As soon as we saw each other we kissed and he took my bags in one hand and me in the other. We rode out to watch the stars and connected. We shared energies and embraced the happenings of the universe.
I ended up going home with a whole new outlook at life. I was like, WTF just happened? How was all of that even possible? Could this be real? I’ve never connected with anyone like that. It felt so hot, bonded, vulnerable and honest. I had to figure out if it was just a fluke fling. I was in San Francisco at the time and moving to Puerto Rico month but something told me I had to see him again. I had to know if it was real. I booked a ticket and was back out there in two weeks time. I showed up, checked in and headed to my favorite coffee place. The universe has its ways of keeping me flabbergasted because as I was approaching the line to get coffee. There he was. It was like he felt my presence because he turned around and looked directly at me. He embraced me and I melted. There was a moment after he kissed my cheek that I realized I was stuck. We hung out for he next two days. This time, our conversations went even deeper and the level of intimacy was so much more intense. It was like a sacred ritual that was waiting to happen. We talked about everything and basked in the presence of one another’s energy. I remember never feeling more free, more alive. We parted with the knowing that this is something so bizarre that it can’t even be put into words.
I’ve been in Puerto Rico for about five months now and I am going to see him in 31 days. In the time that we have been apart, some really strange things started to happen. When I first got to Puerto Rico, my third eye began to tingle and I began to feel a warmth deep in my stomach. I began researching and learned that it was a spiritual awakening that was happening. I began to sense things, feel things and hear things. I would hear angelic words from what was my guardian angel. I began seeing my future and the path that I would need to take to manifest my career moves. It was a lot for me to handle with all of this happening all at once. At the same time, I began to become aware of myself and past hurts that needed healing. I began to meditate daily and would gain so much clarity.
While all of this was going on, I began to telepathically connect with him. I would sense his presence and my heart would start palpitating. I would feel his love and the warmth of his energy. I even heard his voice but couldn’t make out his words. I would have dreams of him and know when he was thinking of me. He hurt himself at work and I literally felt his pain. It has been the oddest thing. At first I thought I was going crazy but now I know that I am truly blessed in knowing that he is the same man that I dreamed about three years ago.
He’s my merman. The man that chooses me and my twin flame. I’ve surrendered to the knowing and have surrendered to the divine. Our connection has gotten so intense that, last night, I was watching netfilx and had to pause the movie to feel his presence. It was so distracting I knew I had to pause and enjoy the moment.
I can’t wait to see him to confirm these telepathic connections. I just hope that one of us doesn’t freak out and run. I have been the runner and tried to shut things down when I first got to Puerto Rico. I was like, this is crazy, this is not happening and I’m scared. The non communication only made the telepathic communication stronger. I feel closer to him than ever.
I just thought I would share and see if anyone else is in the same stage as me. I hope you enjoyed my story because it sure felt good to get all of this off my chest.
HI…I did enjoy your story and it sends me down a path of WHAT IFssss!!! What if my electric connection had happened earlier before life happened!!! I can only imagine where this could have/would have/should have gone if not for lots of other stuffs (including kids and marriages and lives!) You have an option I have not experienced and OF COURSE I wish you lots and lots of luck. Keep reading this blog and you will begin to understand 🙂 You are not cracra (crazy lady took that title !!! LOL) and you are not alone! I have been riding my electric wave for close to 7 years now but because of my particular set of things he and I have not meet in the flesh..amazing you began that way!! There are no easy answers Cristina..life is not a romantic novel and you will have your own set of issues buttttttt there seems to be a real opening here for something. GL and ENJOY the ride!!! You have me hooked..please let us know where and how this goes. I am almost as fascinated with other’s paths and destinations as I am with my own. Holding patterns are a bit monotonous..but I find EVERYTHING imaginable seems to happen through these connections
In faith and belief, K
Hi I have been with my fiancé for almost two years now. Before her, I was open to the idea of deep connections but never truly experienced one with another soul. Since we have been together, we have had several spiritual experiences. Most of which have involved us communicating through dreams. Now, the communication has never been deliberate but has always been at dire junctions in our relationship. Times when our emotions have been the strongest (high stress, fear, sadness) and these subconscious visit almost always bring us peace.
I consider myself a spiritually sensitive person, I sometimes have very vivid dreams of events to come. It runs in my family, same with my fiancé. These dreams, however have become more frequent now that I have been with her. Sometimes my dreams turn into night terrors and sleep paralysis. I have gotten used to them and learned how to focus my energy and regain control in these situations. However, most recently, I had a terrible sleep paralysis experience while sleeping on the couch at my in-laws house(they are very traditional and do not wish us to sleep together until married, we respect their rules in their house) in my dream, I was alone, afraid, stressed and confused. When I woke up, I was looking up at the ceiling of the living room but my body was frozen. Although my mind was awake, my body was still in a sleep state, paralyzed. I heard a little girl laughing, hauntingly, like in a horror film. I heard it as if it were real. I closed my eyes and returned to the dream. The dream created an illusion of the exact living room I was in when I opened my eyes, causing me to question reality. I heard the little girl laughing so I followed it(still dreaming). I found the source was from the bathroom by the room where my fiancé was sleeping. I tried to open the door and confront this fear but it was locked. I ran back to the living room frustrated. Then, suddenly, I heard her, not the laughing girl. But my fiancé, my twin flame. She asked me if I was okay (still in dream) she said she will sleep with me on the couch so I will feel better. Shortly after, I woke up to the sound of someone walking towards the living room. Still shaken up from the strange dream. To my surprise, it was my twin flame, she was up all night and decided to come lay on the couch with me. While I was happy to see her, I was confused. How did she know? She said she “felt her soul being pulled toward me. She knew I needed her”. She laid beside me and I began to cry tears of joy. She had saved me from my night terrors. I slept like a baby afterwards lol.
I just wanted to share our experience with others who may have had similar experiences. We want to learn more about this secret telepathy we share. We want to seek truth and higher understanding.
Anyway, thanks for reading!
This is the best article I’ve read yet on twin flames!!! Definitely will be bookmarking this for later 🙂 thank you so much for writing this ❤
Love and light always
Hello, my TF and I only communicate through Telepathy and we have never met in real life or online at all. As you said when I became aware of the Twin Flame’s never ending connection, I began to interact with her higher self. And she must have felt that connection because she popped into my mental space not too long after that. We have been communicating for the past couple of months and we can now even feel each other on an energetic level and where we make contact is also sensed as well. We can now share our physical experiences now, kind of like channeling, except it’s more of a shared experience than one having more control or awareness than the other. We haven met in the physical yet, but I know it’ll happen eventually and that this is not out main goal as Twin Flame’s, as out main goal would be to become whole again as a soul split into two halves. Thank you for this article, it was very helpful
This is a fantastic article. It confirmed many things I knew to be true about my interaction with my love.
I faced many telephathic symptoms with a person. And he reciprocated many times. I was in doubt if I had any past relation with him and started googling for “chakras” talking to one another. During which I came across this post.
Now my question is , I feel up to 80% that he might be my twin flame.
Both of us are married to different people. We both don’t want to break our own marriages.
I’m totally confused.
Also how do I confirm he is my twin flame fully? Is there anything else that I can do?